So i'm discovering quickly that clitoral stimulation is what feels good to me, but managing to get the right spot/maintain is proving difficult, so i was considering a clit clamp (since the parts spreader is just too far out of affordability, be struggling for the clamp) the spartacus one looks pretty decent but does it rerally make contact with the clitoris easier and more sensitive, or would i just be wasting my money since i'm not interested in it for the bondage play aspect?
The clamp doesn't just have to be used for bondage or pain. You can attach it more loosely and this will avoid the pinching sensation but should also trap more blood in your clitoris, causing it to swell a little more and also raise up more too. I personally think it would work well for the idea you have in mind, but bare in mind that clit clamps fit women differently. How much enjoyment you get from it will depend on things like the size and shape of your clitoris and if you enjoy the sensations the clamp provides. I would say it is worth a go and the price is very good. Lovehoney also have a fab returns policy should it not work for you and so its a small risk.
The returns policy: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/help/returns-policy/
Enjoy!
Thankyou, was unaware of the policy :)
Do you have a wand Hun? If you don't I seriously recommend you try that especially if you are not interested in the bondage aspect. The head is so big you really can't miss the magic spot and even on its lowest setting it is very powerful I have a cheap version and an expensive version and out of all my toys either one of those would be my desert island pick they are incredible and can take me from not even in the mood to earth shattering orgasm in seconds x
I have clit and nipple clamps, and I am not too much into bondage. Maybe having my hands tied and being spanked or spanking occassionally, but nothing more.
I use the clit and nipple clams to enhance sensation and sensitivity. I use fully adjustable clamps, which means there can be very little pain involved. Only problem I found with them was I had to put glue on the rubber bits or they were falling off and if you do not tighten them much, they do have the tendency to slip off.
I have used these on my clit very enjoyable for sure http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8071