Looking for toy suggestions for clit stimulation during PIV particularly missionary. I think our wand would be a little bit pokey (not in a good way) and the Starlet 2 is a bit too percise for PIV (as in youve to concetrate on where you apply it).
I have a mental image of a flatter toy that my OH can hold with out too much difficulty. Ive seen reference on here to a pebble vib, but cant find it on the site. The name suggest its what im looking for but maybe thats my imagination running away with me .
Fingers would probably be best but my OH isnt keen on using her fingers however toys are not an issue.
Not sure what the starlet is like but have had similar problems with the Lelo Sana (1st gen). The Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40 did work though, the head seems deeper and easier to position. A good bullet vibe or fingers is easier. We’ve also used the Fun Factory Manta during couple play with great results both when held on the base of my penis or worked on her clit hood
We have the We Vibe Chorus, which works well for missionary style. It’s a lovely object and fun for both!
Also the Agent Provocateur vibrating cock ring is just an awesome piece of luxury sexiness!
It’s so smooth and squishy and nice - words can’t describe it. I just love everything about it - it looks great!, so easy to charge, batteries last for ever, it lives in a beautiful tiny leather case … it’s just a step up in every way and is like jewelry for your wee chap.
Gushing aside - that works well for missionary too
She loves the WeVibe tango which is a strong rumbling vibe.
Other option is a good vibrating cock ring like the WeVibe Pivot vibrating cock. Being app controlled she can set the pattern /power to suit her and seems to work well in cowgirl grinding positions.
I’ll add that my wife prefers the Melt over her Womanizer (previously her #1 toy). For her it feels a little less focused or intense, and has add’l power settings that adds greater variety as it builds up. She loves it, and it does fit well between us in missionary (the main concern) but of course also works just great in other positions.
Beyond that, a small/bullet vibrator might be a winner for you. We were actually surprisingly impressed by the ROMP Beat vibe. It’s pretty mighty for how small it is, with some good texturing, and fits well between us for clitoral stimulation.
We have tested lots of cock rings. Some like you say are not powerful enough, but if you find one that isn’t a bullet put into a sleeve, they are better.
I tested the Mon ami couples toy amd if its held in place this is really good and doesn’t get in the way but my go to toy is this Desire wand this is guaranteed to work for me every time.
Thank you. The couples toy looks interesting, my only worry is it may stimulate me to the point I dont last as long but I suppose I wont know unless I try i .
On the wands and vibrators its a shame that there is not a common intesity number so you could compare them all evenly.
I almost always use a clit vibe during piv sex, and these are my three go tos that I rotate between, and because they’re small, so they don’t get in the way
We use a suction vibe or bullet during PIV, and it comes down to the position we lay in for ease of use.
We have found the best position is her on her back and I’m on my side, so our bodies make a V or T pattern and or legs are intertwined. I have plenty ability to thrust and she gets the stimulation her clit needs. If I change the angle of my body slightly, I can stimulate her g spot more and her moans of pleasure let me know when I am hitting the spot.
We have tried many styles of toys in the missionary position but none that stay in place or are enjoyable for us.
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