I’ve had my Womanizer Starlet for about 2 years now and the orgasms have always been very weird, not exactly what you would call pleasurable!
However, there have been a handful of times where the orgasms have been so good I could see stars! I find it extremely hard to get the positioning right to achieve this though. When I do it’s like everything suddenly clicks into place and you think ‘ah this is what the fuss is about’ but like I say this has only happened a handful of times out of hundreds of tries!
I know every body is different but I was just wondering what everyone’s ‘go to’ positioning is for the Womanizer to get mind blowing orgasms? I’ve also tried smaller and larger heads but that doesn’t seem to help either. I’ve thought about trying a more expensive one or a different brand but don’t want to waste money if I still experience the same frustration! Any tips would be welcome
If it’s hit the spot a couple times, it might be worth trying another model - one that comes with adjustable heads, especially. My understanding is that the swappable heads really just change the width spacing, but some different models really vary the depth.
There’s also some difference between the power/type of pulse or suction depending on whether it’s a Womanizer branded vs. LH vs Romp vs Satisfyer vs… My wife loves her Womanizers (and Melt), but the LH Rose did nothing for her (well, not entirely true - it was pleasant enough, but not strong enough to actually orgasm - she had to switch to her Pro40 to finish.
Anyway, I’m a dude, so I can only share her experience. She has always described the Womanizer-induced orgasms as feeling like something she had to fight against, like it was sucking the O right out of her, but in her experience that was a good thing.
And as always - if you buy from LH, they really are quite good with the 100 day satisfaction guarantee, so if you buy a more expensive one and it turns out to be the same experience, you aren’t stuck with it.
We’ve found all of the suction toys take a lot of perseverance don’t try it then put it aside keep on at it! You will find the right position to get it too work! Try using some lube, it really helps to get the “seal” and work wonders.
I’ve found huge differences depending on what time of the month it is - sometimes I’m so sensitive it is painful even on lower settings, other times no setting seems to do the job and at other times it’s quite literally spot on - so I don’t think it’s just a case of getting the positioning right
But it’s a definite yes to having lube to ‘seal’ things - that makes a world of difference!
I always use my finger to guide the head of the toy to the right place. Lube really does help but I think that the type of vibration and its intensity are big factors, for me anyway.
I have the Starlet 2 and its quite intense, my bits are sensitive and I don’t enjoy it as much, especially since I discovered low power toys.
Maybe having more of a buildup would make it a better experience for you, I recommend this one. Its rumbly and low powered. The first level feels like the lightest touch, I’ve had many orgasms from this level.
@mb05 I’m answering here as its more in line with this thread than the other.
I have the Starlet 2, the Womanizer Pro40, something similar to this Rose and egg. I think thats all the suction toys, obvs the pump and the Mon Ami suction toy mentioned in my last comment.
The main thing is getting the placement right. I’d start at the lowest intensity and I use my finger to guide it into place, little bit of lube will help. I put the lube on me instead of the toy so that it glides easier. I enjoy indirect stimulation also, so getting it into place feels good to me too. The intensity and types of vibrations are a make it or break it for me.
Just charge the toy, give her some lube and go about your business and leave her to get acquainted and enjoy it.
Some people will want orgasms in seconds, I don’t enjoy that because it feels like the orgasm is being dragged out of me before I get any pleasure from it, and it can be painful.
Now, forced orgasms being done as a kink, are entirely different. I enjoy that bc its a sub/dom thing but thats because he knows how to read my body and I enjoy pain when its given as pleasure.
No but I’ve had it on charge for an hour and is now fully charged. It said on instructions that initial charge would take 3 hours but not even been half that. So I’m good to go.
We recently got the Womaniser starlet. Early observations are that positioning and lube are fairly key, but we only played with it together for a fairly short time before getting a couple of other toys out. I said to my wife to have a bit of alone time with it on a seperate session so she can figure out how to get the positioning right. Will report back when she’s had some solo time with it. The mere thought of her playing with it solo is making me horny…
Lol yes…has same effect on my husband.
It does appear to boil down to lube and positioning.
Definitely want to figure it out on my own so that when we use it together I’v got it sussed otherwise its a proper mood killer!!
Definitely time alone with the toy will help as you said, no pressure then and time to enjoy the journey of experimenting without making an orgasm the only measure of success. (A huge orgasm would of course be incredible, but if not, then the act of playing and taking the time for herself will still bring pleasure).
When ours arrived my husband was really enthusiastic to try it out so we went upstairs and although he knows his way around my genitals he just couldn’t get it to ‘dock’ with my clitorus. In the end I took control and guided it to where it immediately latched on and WOW I had the most intense orgasm!!
I have to admit that further experience has not been as good as that first time and sometimes I am now super sensitive and can’t take full clitorus contact.
don’t try it then put it aside keep on at it! You will find the right position to get it too work! Try using some lube, it really helps to get the “seal” and work wonders.
