I think I’m the only person who doesn’t find these work for me - I’ve never had an orgasm with one and sometimes find the sensation a bit unpleasant at times. Anyone else found this? Any tips to help me out?
My OH doesn’t always achieve orgasm with her cilt sucking toys, alot appears to depend on seal and positioning.
She also has a relatively small clitoris, highly sensitive when tongued or using her wand, but it could be a contributing to her less than optimal experiences with her clit suction toys.
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I’ve managed to get the seal right after lots of trying but still no joy. Other toys do the trick so maybe it’s just time to enjoy them and add to the stash
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I didn’t used to like them, I got a free FSOG one years ago with an order and it just did nothing for me. I was very used to high powered toys, that had me orgasming in 20 secs, so I found it quite boring and slow. Until a period of not using toys or having sex, and the the wand was too much and I tried it again. It was half dead at the time but oh wow, it did what I needed, it was like a slow stroking tongue 
That was it for me, I ordered a new one from Amazon and a week after I got it I ordered another one so that I’d never be without one between cleaning and charging. Not long after that I upgraded to LH and they’re much better quality. So. I think it depends on the toys you already use, whether you like high or low power, and what kind of vibes you enjoy - rumbly or buzzy. Not every toy suits every body, if it says high powered in the description, its not for me. Also a bit of lube and getting the seal right will help.
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I love a more buzzy and steady vibe, fairly gentle to start but ramped up a it when I get fired up. Lube always - once I started using it when on my own or with others I was hooked.
From what you say it’s worth giving it another go.
Thank you 
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My wife has an LH rose, which is the same principle it really works, though she gets me to use it on her, which is tricky to keep in the right place vs. holding it oneself, maybe worth a try?
Off to look at it now
Oh I feel this! Got the satisfyer pro as a sample through somewhere else, fiest clit sucker I’d had and was super excited because of all the raving reviews, but it did nothing for me! I was super disappointed, and actually thought it was me that was the issue!
I personally don’t find the mon ami rose’s
or the regular mon amo suction stimulation to be consistent enough for my liking, but the LH Thrill is fantastic in my personal opinion! The stimulation is far more consistent than rhythmic, and I’m still actively reaching for it 2 years later.
It took me a while to realise that everyone’s body will react differently, however, so unfortunately I can’t guarantee any specific one will work for yoy. It might be a bit of trial and error on your part to find one that suits 
Good luck!
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My OH has 4 different vibrators, her go to is the bullet, she has had limited success with the clit sucker. Took a little time to work out the positioning, even now somedays she just doesn’t get the feeling shes after. Maybe the clit sucker takes a while to get the job done as if shes not in the mood and wants a quicker release she reverts to the bullet.
The OH throws the clit suckers say in disgust some times and then explodes in seconds the other. I personally find it comical as it sounds like a koi carp fish sucking at the surface until it’s in the right place.
Not a job for me. If you blink it’s in the wrong place.
i tried the womaniser but ended up chucking it, but will give the LH thrill a go
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I definitely second what @JoCat says, that different toys work for different people. The first clit suctin toy I purchased was a Womanizer startlet; sometimes it did things, other didn’t, but it never gave me an orgasm. Then I purchased a FSOG rose like everyone was raving on about (the FSOG range better suited our existing sex toys), and I think it gave me an orgasm once, but mostly purely out of luck. Then I got sent a Pocket Pal to review and OMG! If that thing ever breaks I will be devestated - it’s my absolute go-to for get-off-in-thirty-seconds orgasms now! 
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My wife was much the same.
She tried 3 or 4 different clitoral suction toys and couldn’t get one that worked for her.
Fortunately we got the Romp Free X to test and it was perfect. It gets her off in seconds every time she uses it. It’s such a simple toy too.
Orgasms in seconds used to be my goal but now I prefer to enjoy the build up, its much more satisfying that way. I have 3 in a basket by my bed…my fav, the all rounder and the super rumbly one. The pro 40 (all rounder) is probably the most powerful of the 3, the Romp (rumbly one) would probably be my 1st choice bc of how delicious the rumbles are, but it turns easily off of its target. A more pronounced cup would help, its hard to feel where the head is when its in place and things are slippy.
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My wife would generally say the same, but if she uses it and its in the right spot
She takes seconds to orgasm
She also says that its a toy she needs to already be turned on to ues as her clit is more sensitive
Then it works wonders 
She has the LH Romp x
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-suction-vibrators/p/lovehoney-x-romp-switch-clitoral-suction-stimulator/a44869g81901.html
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We have a couple of these, the Pro40 and the first gen Lelo Sona (no longer stocked by LH) Of the two the Sona is more powerful and she can’t take above maybe the second setting. The Womaniser has less power so can handle higher settings by never on full power. Both get her to orgasm but she says they do feel different. For partner play I find the Womaniser easier to use. The head is larger and deeper so easier to position. If it’s solo play for her then she says it’s 50/50 depending on her mood. Either solo or partnered play though these toys are not a go to straight away. She needs other forms of warm up before using these. I believe that womaniser do replacement heads of different sizes so this might be an option to try to get something more suitable for your body. With the womaniser my partner also enjoy the toy being moved about, not just on her clit
I have like 20 different suction toys from multiple different brands, some work for me, some don’t. My advice would be test different brands, there are huge differences from brand to brand. My personal favorites are the Satisfyer Pro 2+ and a new Womanizer toy which I got from a product test, it’s not on the market yet.
My wife always has a great orgasm to clit stimulation/ suction toys
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My wife has various different womanizers and an LH rose.
They give her huge orgasms as long as she gets a tight fit. Rarely she uses lube to help but normally toy on skin.
I help with either kisses around her play area or feet. Also sometimes combined with an erotic story I make up as we go along.
She squirts 8/10 times with 2/10 times a humungous amount of squirting.
Give it another try.
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I have just a cheap one from LH and it taught me soooo much about my self! I have used it to build my confidence in what I like and recently bought into use with my husband! There are probably better ones out there but I can’t fault it ! Absolute amazing !
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