Hi & thanks for adding me
I’m (F) interested in exploring some sex toys with my partner (M).
I need quite a bit of external stimulation to cum so we were wondering about a vibrating cock ring. So that I can be getting that extra stimulation when he’s inside me. But I need a low setting on the vibrator as I find often the settings are too intense. Any recs?
Was also thinking of a suction / air vibe (sorry don’t know term) as a separate toy, again any recommendations would be great. I have only ever used a traditional phallic type vibe before
Thank you!
I would recommend this one: Tracey Cox Cock ring
Its the one my partner and I use and like the most. It would be perfect if the vibrating bit at the top was longer to reach up higher
We like to use the bionic bullet vibrating rabbit cockring, different speeds and patterns and it always works for me
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Hello and welcome @cactuscactus869 
Cock rings can be fun, but they can be a bit hit and miss contact-wise - though grinding positions can help. Mrs Chimp prefers more of a constant stimulation, so we’ll use something like a bullet or a wand during instead. 
The suction-style toys are fantastic. They’re not as easy to keep in position as a regular vibrator, and vigorous sex can knock them off the sweet spot, so you may need to practice a bit before you perfect a good rhythm. Not everyone gets on with them though, so if you do decide to try one out you may want to check out the Lovehoney Sex Toy Happiness Promise as a bit of a safety net.
Here’s a couple of useful topics on them:
Womanizer - did it work? | Suction Toy Round-Up
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I can’t really help you with the cock rings but I can recommend the womanizer premium. It’s expensive but I find it more gentle than the other air pulse technology toys 
Womanizer premium: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-suction-vibrators/p/womanizer-premium-smart-silence-clitoral-stimulator-black/a40149g73387.html
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Thank you, Ill look into that
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Ok, so a Q after having read some of the reviews - how easy do you find it to use during penetration by your partner. Presumably you have to hold it in place - does that work? Sorry totally clueless as only ever used dildo vibrators
Thank you , really good to know a returns feature is possible, as I am reading a lot of conflicting reviews from awesome to terrible - which is surely b/c we are all so different
We do enjoy using it but the bunny part can stop him from going all the way in when he’s penetrating, and you don’t have to hold it in place, but you do have to position it in the right place on the penis so it touches your clit
When we do use cock rings Mrs Chimp prefers the non-pointy style, as the pointy ones can get a bit jabby. The Mantric one is a good example (and in the sale at the moment too).
It’s got a nice, wide surface area, so it’s a bit easier to keep a constant contact.
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For me personally, I prefer a guy to use a non-vibrating cock ring and to use a bullet vibe for clit.
Suction toys are great for solo sessions as I find they get in the way of penetration. It’s all about trial and error but it’s fun trying new toys and having fun.
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This Tenga cock ring has been a revelation for us.
As some have alluded to, bulky cock rings can stab / poke uncomfortably with too much movement, and lots of people recommended bullets instead.
This tenga cock rock is a bullet attached to your penis. 1st time I’ve managed to make my wife come hands free, as she won’t come without clit stimulation.
It has limitations. Missionary or cowgirl, and you have to stay pretty deep in for the bullet part to make contact (oh no… 
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My wife doesn’t like strong toys and this one starts very mildly and has 5 steps of power instead of the usual 3, so the increments between lowest speed and top speed are reasonably stepped up. Very flat too, doesn’t protrude or poke if I start stroking more vigorously.
It’s a bit pricey though, but what a lovely toy.
I’ll add, it doesn’t do much for me, but it’s all about her and i love it!!!
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My wife finds suction toys quite intense. We have the original lelo sona and the Womanizer X Lovehoney Pro40. Neither toy has been used at full power but both defiantly work for her. As a couples toy the womaniser is easier to use as the suction head is larger and deeper so easier to position. We’ve not had much success with vibrating cock rings although we’ve only tried cheaper versions rather than those mentioned above.
Generally if my wife needs some extra external play and I’m not hitting the spot she’ll either use her own fingers or a cordless wand which gives us both a nice vibe.
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We recently got the Agent Provocateur X Lovehoney The Two-Step Vibrating Silicone Ring. I’d never tried a cock ring before and got this because - to be honest - it juts looked like the nicest object and you know it will be great quality coming from these two brands.
It is fun - it doesn’t lead to earth shattering orgasms for either of us - but -it does ‘turn up the heat’.
Very use to charge, use and clean - super soft and lovely to touch.
The other option we have is the We Vibe Chorus - also pretty fun!
