Hello and welcome @cactuscactus869 
Cock rings can be fun, but they can be a bit hit and miss contact-wise - though grinding positions can help. Mrs Chimp prefers more of a constant stimulation, so we’ll use something like a bullet or a wand during instead. 
The suction-style toys are fantastic. They’re not as easy to keep in position as a regular vibrator, and vigorous sex can knock them off the sweet spot, so you may need to practice a bit before you perfect a good rhythm. Not everyone gets on with them though, so if you do decide to try one out you may want to check out the Lovehoney Sex Toy Happiness Promise as a bit of a safety net.
Here’s a couple of useful topics on them: