I am looking for a cock ring that keeps me hard so I can keep going.
I have a few cheap vibrating ones, but I am looking for ones that keep me as hard as I can be. What is the advice from the group?
Try the triple steel cock ring, OH wear one permanently and is a solid as a rock when getting his morning BJ.
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How does he take it off?
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I take it of once a week, he is not allowed to take it off,
Assuming this is true, please stop doing this immediately.
A cock ring is not meant for long term use, and should really be used for longer than a normal sex session. Any longer could lead to medical issues.
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Maybe a self adjusting one might help as then you’ll at least be sure to get the right fit around that your after…
There are different approaches to wearing cockrings.
Loose - loose meaning that when you’re flaccid they’re loose but as you grow, they tighten. These have the advantage that after you’ve finished and go soft, their pressure releases. So if you fall asleep without taking them off they’re less likely to make your dick fall off. Example
Tight - tight usually require lube to put on and remain tight all the time. Put on flacid or hard, softer silicone can reduce pressure and pinching, but harder silicones, while being less stretchy, can provide more pressure. These shouldn’t be left on for long or you can damage the nerves resulting in either loss of sensation of erectile disfunction. Example
Adjustable loop - these usually have a loop of silicone and a clothes toggle, so you can vary the diameter to suit. These might be the perfect beginners ring so you can get a feel for the size and position you prefer. Example
Most rings can be worn around the penis shaft only or around the shaft and balls, close to your body, or even around your balls depending on the size. You can get some with an extra loop that separates your balls.
Silicone - obviously these stretch but they are not all created equal, some will stretch more than other and so provide differing sensations and results.
Steel - these can be solid or often come in two halves, closed either with a screw or magnet. Obviously these don’t stretch, have more weight than silicone and are for the more experienced. On the whole I think these are best being slightly on the loose side so you can get them off easily when flacid. Example
Thin - provides a very localised, sometimes slightly painfull constriction, like an elastic band. Most useful for shaft constriction.
Thick - the pressure is spread out and when placed behind your scrotum have the advantage of pushing everything forward too.
Vibrating - meant to provide some vibratory fun, usually to your partners clit. Example
With attached toy - this could be butt plug, p-spot toy, an extra shaft to provide your lady with simultaneous anal. Example Example
Ball stretchers - these go around your scrotum, between your balls and shaft. They can be used to very slightly delay ejaculation and add weight. They can be found as simple stretchy silicone up to fairly huge and weighty solid steel. Example
Since we’re all made differently, what might be loose for me, could be strangulating for yourself. Wrap a cable or string around yourself and measure the girth when hard and when soft. That’ll give you a starting point if you want to jump straight in, or probably easier to buy a loop.
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This is a good summary of different types and approaches.
My experience with cock rings to help get hard has been pretty mixed - if I’m already having a night where it’s not happening, adding a ring usually has the opposite effect in preventing new blood inflow to the erection. Looser rings that go around cock AND balls to do more pushup effect seem better in that case. If I’m not having erection trouble, putting a constricting ring on my shaft can add an enjoyable intensity to my erection and orgasm, but I don’t find that it helps be go any longer that normal, at least not noticeably.
Too be perfectly honest, I’d like to find some high quality to m silicone rings that constrict as tight as I prefer, but no luck so far. I can’t figure it out as I believe I’m squarely average girth. I do have some soft plastic rings that get as tight as I like, but they wear out faster than silicone and I don’t like the look of them as much
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Is a cockring to stay hard, whatsoever… or is a cockring to get you hard?
I think it’s more to stay hard, but they frequently get suggested in threads where folks are discussing erectile difficulties, generally. Trying to reread for OP’s intent. Not sure if “to keep going” means to keep going after cumming, which sounds unpleasant to me beyond a point. A tight enough ring will keep some engorgement, but my experience just from times playing and not getting the ring off immediately is that that kind of erection is more “plump” than “hard” and probably not the most useful for good sexing.
These days when I am having erectile trouble it’s usually mental - and once it gets in my head it’s tough to shake. In those circumstances even slipping a ring on after we get me hard is not good enough to keep from losing the erection if I get in my head again.
Due to related anxiety around all those things I ironically have best results from cockrings when my wife is out of town for days and I have a longer solo session to really get worked up.
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Yeah, if you get stuck in your head no cock ring in the world is going to help.
You have to get out of that headspace, which isn’t so easy, but certainly do-able. We always resort to laughter, distraction and taking it slow. If you dwell on it and make an issue you’ll get no where.
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I’ve recently started trying cock rings to improve both my firmness and stamina. The first one I tried consisted of straps, which although felt great on and helped with firmness, I’m not sure it help my performance.
I then purchased a stretchy cock and ball sleeve. I haven’t quite mastered putting it on, at the moment it can be quite pinchy. But once on it is amazing, it doesn’t feel overly tight bit massively improves both firmness and stamina. I would definitley recommend! Just search love honey for stretchy cock and ball sleeve, they have a few different versions. As much as I would like to try a vibrating cock ring, I worried it might not help my stamina!
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