I’ve written pretty extensively about our experience of using extender sleeves. Here’s what I dropped on another recent thread, before rehashing too much:
Here’s my review of the 2 Extra Inches extender that is our most-frequently used. We also have the Extra Girthy but she has to be in the very particular mood to take that one and I just used my VIP reward code to get the 3 Extra Inches - haven’t used it yet, but looking just out the box I don’t see how it will be an inch longer than the 2. Even if it’s not bigger, I can’t complain about having a spare around for when the favorite eventually wears out.
I’ve provided quite a few other comments around playing with extenders outside the review if you want to skim them here.
Hopefully that covers most of the pros and cons, but I love slipping one on for some extended play. For me, the desensitization is a feature, not a bug and allows me to “keep up” when wifey is using her favorite vibe (Womanizer Pro40/We-Vibe Melt) on her clit so I can last, and also a little extra length helps with some positions where flexibility is required or I’m prone to slip out. Happy to answer any other specific questions you might have, but I think the review linked covers a lot of ground.
Do you mean a sleeve or an extender? I have both. The sleeve is just that, it is a sleeve that goes over my cock and is open on both ends. It gives a little more girth but not much. What it really does is to cut down on the sensation, which makes me work a bit harder, and thus giving my wife an extra hard ride. The head of my cock sticks out a bit so I get feeling from it being exposed. I like it because I get some feeling but also no feeling from most of my cock.
I also have extenders that give more length, girth and a bigger head, so my wife is getting a bigger cock than mine. This really isolates me from feeling much which again permits me to rider her harder. At first she wasn’t to sure about using it and we went easy. But the second time, I asked her if she wanted the big dick and she said yes within a split second. She went cowgirl with it and rode it well. I didn’t feel much but enjoyed it very much as I watched this huge cock going in and out of her and she just kept going fastener and fastener on it.
I would recommend both a sleeve and an extender. But I think I enjoy the sleeve the most.
She enjoyed both, but I found the 2” to be quite numbing as a wearer. It felt like it was pushing the blood out of me more. I don’t think I would be able to cum while wearing it. The +1” gives far more sensation to the wearer, and is more stretchy.
I think all of them are “every now and then” toys rather than all the time.
I have had about the same experience as you Pogo….after a round of sex one evening we were just lying there talking and for some reason I asked her if she ever fantasized or wanted a bigger cock than mine (I’m a little over 6” long and 5.5” around) and she sheepishly admitted to having thoughts of what it would feel like to take a bigger cock in her pussy..we began doing some research and decided to get a penis extender which had both longer length and bigger girth..we started with one that added 1” on length to my cock..she was really excited to take the longer cock sleeve in her pussy…it was a little awkward to begin with but she enthusiastically enjoyed the added length, so we ordered one that added 2” in length and had a bigger head..She admitted it gave her the feeling of more fullness and pressure inside her pussy which she really liked..the look on her face when I bury the longer cock sleeve into her wanting pussy is priceless !!!
I am under 5 inches so we have used them. I loved being able to take the longer strides so even though I had less feeling I still enjoyed it. My wife has mixed feelings for it doesn’t feel real. It takes time to get used to it, but she liked the extra girth and length. We do not use them that often, but they can be a fun change of pace.
I’m same situation as you, 6.5 long, and 5.5 thick, she has a dildo an inch longer and an inch fatter, and loves it, so wanted to add a bit to mine now and again, what sleeves or extender did you use that’s not too tight for 5.5 thick, have you got a link, or if anyone else knows of a suitable cock extender. Cheers.
I’m in the same ballpark as y’all - I think on average I’m 6.75 x 5.25. This is the newest one we’ve added to the collection and it’s now the favorite. The silicone has a lot of flex and give and is much easier to get on and off than the soft plastic ones. It seems to be tackier/stickier after cleaning and so coming out of storage always has dust and fuzz stuck to it so needs to be rewashed before use, but that’s my only complaint. It adds an extra inch via the head that is pleasantly soft/squishy and much more pleasant for my wife than others and has plenty of stretch room for girth - I don’t think 5.5 would be bad. Transmits body temperature just fine and I had no problem orgasming with my wife when she came - could feel her contractions and pulsing through it to pull me along, too. Highly recommend.
We’ve got the Mega Mighty 2 girthy which I absolutely love. My penis is about as average as it comes in terms of size. 5.5” long and not massively girthy. We didnt want anything with much more length to it as I already sometimes get too deep for my wife, but what we really wanted to experience was something with more girth giving her a thicker experience.
Honestly, the first time we used it her reaction
Was out of this world. I’d not seen her moan and gasp like that in quite some time, so it was safe to say she loved it! It’s definitely not a replacement for my penis, because we still have great sex without it, but for bit of a switch up from time to time and to give her a sensation I otherwise can’t provide it’s an amazing choice.
Only real downside is you need to make sure you use A LOT of lube, and keep using it. Because you won’t be able to feel just how much lube is needed make sure you check in.
For my 6.5 long and 5.5 thick I decided to go with the Lovehoney Mega Mighty 2 Extra Inches Girthy Penis Extender with Ball Loop , it come today, oh my god, I felt like I was Jmac, don’t know why some bad reviews, it says how big it is before you order, so if your OH can’t take that, then don’t leave a bad review, it fits me perfect, just squeeze the air out, takes 5 seconds to put it on, she loved it, made her cum a few times doggie and missionary, she said missionary was best, nice intimate sex with something larger for her.
Should be a great fit for you! I think it fits well enough that you probably don’t need to use the ball loop but probably would work anyway. Depending on day and arousal I’m 6.75-7.25 bone pressed length, but you don’t actually wear the sleeve over that whole length. And I’m 5-5.25 in girth and there’s plenty more stretch and give to this one. It’s easily wifey’s favorite of all the sleeves we’ve tried. The silicone is much softer and doesn’t dry up the lube as quickly as the other plastic ones. I think it also transfers body heat better, actually molds to and enhanced the actual shape of your own shaft, and has an almost realistically squishy head that she really likes.
The Mega Girthy is amazing to wear and watch in and out but it is FAT - I think somewhere between 3/8 - 1/2 inch thick all around, so between .75 - 1 inch expanded diameter. In our house it requires loads of lube, warmup, and usually takes further sex off the table for 24 hours after. It’s not silicone, so it does get tacky and lose lube quickly.
Really helpful thank you! So you have the Mega Mighty extra 1 inch then? Is that the one you’re referring to when you say the Mega Girthy is amazing to wear, but is FAT? Sorry for all the questions - I’m an absolute novice with these. My wife has never had anything bigger than myself so I’m trying to ease her in gently and make sure I buy the right one
No worries - always happy to answer questions! Here are the ones we have - I’m in the US, but I’m assuming if they have the same name, pictures, and specs in the UK shop that it’s the same product - in order of preference:
1 Extra Inch Silicone (you linked) - Newest addition, and favorite. Really is a nice +1" squish head on it, very soft and flexible silicone all around. Concerned the ball loop is the weakest link and may break sooner than later, but otherwise 5 stars. Super happy to see some good silicone extenders coming to the shop.
2 Extra Inches - the first one we bought, favorite for a long time. Had to throw it out - plastic definitely reacted with something else in the toybox and was repeatedly slimy when we took it out even after thorough cleaning. Bummer.
2 Extra Inches GIRTHY - Love this one myself. Love watching it in and out - it does add close to 2 inches in length but this is the FAT one. And it just feels HEAVY on your cock which is its own kind of intoxicating. Lube and re-lube and. She likes it too, but definitely a mood thing and I have to be prepared to not be allowed anywhere near her vagina for a day afterward.
3 Extra Inches - This one really clocks in about the same size as the 2 extra inches, but somehow floppier. Not sure how that works, but was disappointing.