Today, I found myself out of my comfort zone. My own choice. What have you done receythat pushed you out of your comfort zone?
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I think my most recent one would be heights. Had to work ontop of a really tall wearhouse and im not the best with heights.
However, im starting to get used to them, i think its just that first step of it, once i was up there once i got used to it and didnt mind working up there
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Lots of things in the last few years, some i had no choice, and some i pushed myself to do because I challenged myself to face a few fears and try new things.
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We (73 and 72) bought a treadmill a couof weeks ago and we’re using it religiously every day. Im gradually increasing the speed.
I now do 10 minutes at 5 kph, 10 minutes at 5.5 kph and 10 minutes at 6 kph.
It may not seem much but its a big step for both of us.
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We went to our first munch yesterday which was also a play party (bdsm play, no sex). Weve not played in public before so gave that a go. We did have an area with a curtain around us but found we got so turned on while he was spanking me and we could hear others doing the same.
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I wish women would step out of there comfort zone and try something new and different, as Im in a wheelchair and never had a woman. Mainly because Im stupidly shy, but it would help if women would help me out and make the first move
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I went to a fetish market in puppy hood, collar, cuffs and a tail belt. Occasionally my friend led me about on a lead. It was an accepting and comfortable place but the first step was stressful
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I’m going to have a couple of days home alone
I’m definitely looking forward to some dressing up and cam fun
It’s an idea that turns me on immensely but I never managed to do on cam
I’m going to try cum eating
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What was it that pushed you out of your zone?
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I’m quite anxious about wearing heels, boots or particular outfits outside the safety of my home. I always have been. I worry what people think about what I wear, or if I fell in higher heels…
But today, it was good to get out and about, running some errands in higher heels than I would normally wear. Just oushed me a bit out of my comfort zone. I’ve been trying to feel more comfortable when uncomfortable. 
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That’s so great that you pushed yourself. I’m sure you looked great and felt it too.
I used to feel similar to you, that people were looking at me, judging me. My counsellor at the time asked me ‘do you look at people when you’re out?’ Well, yes we all do. “but, how long is that person on your mind afterwards?”
For me that completely changed my mindset. Even if people judge me in a moment, the majority will have forgotten me within minutes. They’ve got other things on their mind, even if it’s just what they’re having for lunch. 
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Well done, hope you can both keep doing it. Half an hour of gentle exercise like that a day can only reap rewards. Can even watch tv or whatever at the same time so you don’t get bored. 
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Exactly what we do.
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I’m sure many of us struggle to think we look good when we walk out the door. I really appreciate your kind words!
I have been working on similar ideas with a counsellor. However, I am hyper vigilant and really do notice all of the details and they stay in my memory. What I’m learning is that I’m the exception and not the rule.
Walking down the street in sleek knee high boots with a cute heel actually forces me to walk differently. People can hear me coming and I guess I carry myself differently. I’m forcing myself to have confidence and not care about what people think - even if I’m struggling with confidence
You’re 
right! People spend so much time thinking about themselves to worry about others
How long does it take to shift out of that mindset?
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Happy praises to you 
this is a fantastic step! Hopefully afterwards you was full of that uplifting accomplishment feeling that makes you walk higher in them heels 
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Lol…Believe me… there were many steps involved 
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Last time I was pushed out of my comfort zone was a time when my wife had her time of the month and didn’t want to have sex, but said she was happy to play with me. I was masturbating in front of her, which I’ve done before, but was craving anal stimulation. She’s pegged me for a while now, so I told her what I was feeling and pulled out my dildo. I ended up fucking myself with the dildo in one hand, while stroking myself with the other.
This was the first time that I’ve ever used a dildo on myself in front of someone, and the only time I can remember masturbating in front of someone to the point of orgasm without the other person touching me. I felt self conscious about dildoing myself and didn’t think I would cum, but once I zoned in on the right spot, I just erupted fairly quickly. I’m glad that I did it because it’s something I’ve been doing in private for a very long time, I should be able to share it with my partner.
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