My OH wants me to come like immediately during sex. Just once, to get the experience and know she drove me that crazy.
I know people suffer with premature ejaculation, but I'm the opposite, I've been really worked up before but it has never happened in less than a couple to 5 minutes. So anyone else want to or glad they've experienced this? Is my OH just the odd ball I've always said she is? :P
J
Sometimes I wish I could go immediately. I'm also the opposite of premature, We can go at it for ages, she could've orgasmed several times and I just wont be able to go. It's incredibly frustrating at times.
I would love to experience orgasming quickly just once, just to see what it's like.
No she isn't an oddball. I have a little fetish for premature ejaculation. (I am female) While I would not want it every single time, because it would always be over before it begun, but I love it, and encourage it. :D
Although we have a bit of a BDSM edge to our sex life, and his orgasms are under my control, and I deny him for weeks and then tease the crap out of him with my hands and mouth for hours, sometimes for consecutive days on end, before allowing him to have sex (or cum)...and he gets proper frustrated that he cannot get any kind of rhythm going before having to stop and calm down. (He still isn't allowed to cum!) hehe
Yes I am mean. :D
But yes, it is sexy as hell to me. It is one thing I fantasise about and watch mostly in porn etc, so your lady is not alone. xx
As for tips to get you to that point...
Well I suggest following what I do above :D
Well, it could be possible if she tries something new that would really turn you on, but not necessarily. It happened to me with my OH just once - when he was sitting on the bed and I sat on top of him. But probably it will not happen again. However, he is quick in general - he is off most of the times in about 5 minutes.
That being said - I don't mind it. I even prefer it to someone who couldn't be off for hours.
The quickest I can go from 0 to WAHAY, FIREWORKS is about 3 minutes. But that's on my own. I can't get there that quickly with someone. I just couldn't do that. I guess i'm lucky? Or Broken? I don't know.
I love prem ejaculation (like FB says, not every time) as i find it a huge compliment and i encourage guys not to feel bad about it! but my partner is the same as you, he finds it difficult and often frustrating to come, and the quickest its ever been with me for him is like half an hour, and that was after we hadnt seen each other in a long time. dont know if there is much of a way to bring it on super quick though!!
Me too. I'd see it as a big achievement/compliment. :)
My OH has never wanted me to cum prematurely but she seem to appreciate when I have. I'm not exactly a duration man normally but i do alright, however when she has denied me I can never really help but climax. Anyway she has always seemed ok with it and I always manage to go again. If she really wants you to then I'd say some prolonged foreplay, teasing and denial will do the trick if nothing else will.
My OH wanted the same experience from me back when we first started dating, we would go at it for hours - our record was a 9 hour session - so I bought some kind of gel/balm designed for use by women on their clits to make it more sensitive.. piled what must have been 7 doses around the head of my penis.. she slipped me inside and BOOM instant ejaculation.
And of course 8 years on she wants things to last hours and I'm lucky to last 5 minutes.. just can't win! =p
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My OH wants me to come like immediately during sex. Just once, to get the experience and know she drove me that crazy.
I know people suffer with premature ejaculation, but I'm the opposite, I've been really worked up before but it has never happened in less than a couple to 5 minutes. So anyone else want to or glad they've experienced this? Is my OH just the odd ball I've always said she is? :P
J
My OH wanted this, how i did it is was wait a week with no sex. Made her promise that when ever I choice would be fine with her so she could have it. Then one evening whilst she was doing the dishes on a friday after a week with out. whipped upstairs watched a video we had made together masterbated to the point of cumming kept going shot down stairs. Pulled her pants down, bent her over the kitchen sink 3 pumps and she got what she wanted
Later that evening I was the recipeint of an amazing thankyou BJ.
My BF has good stamina but sometimes its hot just to be able ton have a quick fix. As quickies can be just as amazing as long sessions. Maybe that's what she's after?
I agree with chockie, I have had sex with women, and you perfectly satisfies her, but you can't get there yourself, which is ok. But the lady gets offended if you don't get there - and don't even try to fake it - SHE WILL KNOW
I agree with most of the above, I find my oh coming quick a real turn on and a huge compliment, and sometimes you do just want a quickie (or if time ony permits this), but would not want it everytime as sometimes I love a nice long, hard session too!! also agree with Janny - do not fake it SHE WILL KNOW
we have role played cumming quick - takes some preperation but great fun in a RP situation. You can always go again!
what is exactly what a much older woman said to me when i was young! x