@Shagger11 wow, that’s an eye opener regarding the view your girlfriend gets in that position 
I also love to 69, and now I’m worried my wife gets tired or uncomfortable in that position. Thinking we should definitely try it sideways next time 
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Thank you
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Fleshlight advice and LH availability needed please.
Have looked through forums to see if any questions on my particular need but can’t find any - so here goes?
I’m looking to buy a fleshlight from LH asap but I can’t see the one I want.
I’m looking for most realistic anal feel possible.
I have read fleshlight reviews online and they say the ‘Classic’ anal fleshlight is the one get as its smooth canal most resembles the real thing.
The only anal ones I see in LH shop have all bumps inside, which is probably great, but not what a real bum would feel like inside so not for me.
It could also be called ‘pink lady’ anal which is smooth inside. Must be anal one though not vagina which I can see is available in LH shop.
Can anyone tell me if LH can supply the anal version?
Also any reviews from anyone who has wanted the real anal feel and bought one would be appreciated
Thanks
James.
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If it isn’t on the website then they don’t stock it so even if you put a request in the Pander to Me thread and they decide to stock it, it won’t be something that happens quickly.
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The anal Fleshlight with the super tight smooth canal was a particular favourite of mine. But I don’t think LH stock it at the moment sadly.
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There are some male anal fleshlights available on the LH site based on gay porn stars if that’s of any use for your needs…
I have one myself and it feels pretty damn good each time 
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Inside of bums must be similar whoever they belong to I guess. Its a toy afterall and not a person ot doesn’t matter really.
I’m looking for as realistic as possible so a smooth insert rather than all those creases and bumps inside!
I’ll have a look again. The classic fleshlight was the smooth and supposedly most realistic I have read.
Thanks for your help
James.
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Most welcome 
lovehoney are always adding new products each week so defo keep tabs and checking 
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I think there are offbrand fleshlight alike toys that have a smooth inside, but have a different name other than fleshlight. I remember I had one in Uni, called something like glidepro or thrustpro or something becuase I couldnt afford a brand name toy at the time.
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Update on this. The 69 problem was sorted thanks the great people on this forum.
The anal thing not so though. I do crave it. They say you can’t miss what you’ve never had and so true of this. I see my OH’s gorgeous bum I know I can’t do anything with it.
Anyway, if you recall I suggested a compromise, some kind sleeve that kind of turns a vagina into an anus…
I can slip sleeve in there and get an artifical anus to enter.
Its nearest thing I could think of…
LH sadly didn’t have anything. But I did find and buy something. It’s a large-ish dildo with a anus in the end and anal canal inside!
I obviously OH to put it her vagina then I put me in it
I think we might be able to try it tonight yayyy!
If a success I may post a picture of it in the photos of toys section and hope LH might think about stocking it for others.
Will get back on this with an out of 10 rating and more importantly if it helps to satisfy my longing for giving anal sex.
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Well after long discussion we finally got it.
I’ve posted some photos of it in the ‘toy box’ section.
It is bigger than I expected. OH is pretty tight but we popped it into her vagina with a little lube.
It’s 8" long and she does say “it’s a bit uncomfortable” (words I feared hearing to be honest.) Its thick too, it gets to 8" circumference with my penis inside it.
For me though it feels really alright, it’s similar to a real anus and canal. I like it, although the canal certainly wasn’t long enough inside. I actually modified it by using a spade drill carefully to hone out some of the material. I also found a trapped air a problem! so I drilled a hole where it should be in the end of the penis toy. Air now escapes and I can slide all the way in too.
Yes, it feels good for me and fooled my brain quite well into thinking I was doing real anal. A good turn on.
It’s a shame OH found some cause for complaint though. I just think she very sensitive to ‘pain’ feelings and possibly isnt really good at distinguishing ‘pain’ feeling from ‘intense sexual’ feeling (if that makes sense?) As well the length being a little too much for her, It does ‘stretch’ her a bit to be honest. As said, I measured it at 8" girth with my penis inside it.
She is really just a PiV (and not too big a P) girl and that’s pretty much it.
We’ve used it twice though. Once in doggy pos. Where at climax I pulled out and came all over her anus. The toy acted as a ‘dam’ and held it there, and I was able and allowed to just push a little cum inside her bum with a finger- very satisfying. The second time I came inside the sleeve, a nice tight feeling but some resistance felt when cumming. (Will pull back a bit next time, if there is a next time.) 
Afterwards It was very easy to clean out.
Not sure how it will continue. I’m obviously
far more into it than she is.
If she says she doesn’t like it when we try next I may have to ditch the idea and just buy a proper full ‘toy’ bottom to f**k and let her watch while I do it. That way she has no discomfort in either anus or vagina.
O and the toy is also a fair solo mastubator. I’m thinking a fleshlight will be lots better though.
I give it 6.5/10. Would be higher if my OH found it suits her better.
There is so much wrong with this paragraph. You are completely dismissing your partner’s feelings in pursuit of your own pleasure. Yeah, maybe you are right and she is very sensitive to pain but that doesn’t stop it causing her pain. If a partner told me something was causing them discomfort, I wouldn’t want to be pushing them to do it again, nor would I be acting like it was a complete drag that they aren’t in to it.
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No you are right, @Calie So sorry if it came across wrong. It isn’t well worded, apologies… I’m still searching for a compromise and I did say further on if she doesn’t want to use it anymore I shall ditch it and try something else.
I respected her wish to cease anal as she didn’t want to do it anymore. And I will continue to make sure she is happy - over and above thinking about myself
Sometimes the compromise is giving up on a fantasy to stay in an otherwise happy, loving and satisfying relationship. My concern is that your constant search for a solution that involves your partner could end up with her agreeing to something she’s not entirely happy with but the least uncomfortable option just to end the requests, I’m sure you don’t want her doing something she isn’t completely into and enjoying. That’s why I think you should find a toy you enjoy and just keep it for your solo timee. I know you would prefer she is involved but I’m getting the feeling she isn’t into it, maybe not even watching. Of course invite her to join you but Ithinm if she shows any reluctance its time to keep it for solo enjoyment
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Hi @AmyA exactly. I 100% agree. There’s more to it all than I can even write down without an essay - and find it tough to put some things into words properly.
I always put her before I although some of my words may not help to make that sound plausible.
I’m searching a bit to try to get some zing back.
Sometimes I overdo the ‘ideas’, I tend to overthink things. Rest assured, I find her terribly sexy and love her very much, but admit I can’t help being a little frustrated at times. Absolutely though, paramount importantly and rest assured that said frustration will never lead to me forcing something on her she is not wanting. That is total end of relationship territory and more importantly - plain wrong.
I spoke with her tonight about the whole thing and we are good. It turns out it was the length of the sleeve at 8" that was causing her discomfort not the circumference. * She suggested * I shorten it by cutting off the end so it becomes an open sleeve and we try again.
If it works, it works, if it doesn’t, I’ll disguard it and move on…
She does like to watch, and we do have good exciting play together.
She admits she just doesn’t have as high sex drive as me. There are some issues with her mental health presently of which I’m doing everything I can to support her as I respect and love her very much.
As for solo stuff, I do loads of that too, again post about regularly. And we even talk about it too.
Update and conclusion on this…
The first time we used the ‘sleeve’ we got on ok, we did doggy, toy inside her vagina creating a mock ‘bum hole’ for me. It was good.
The second time she found the sleeve (at 8" long) - “uncomfortable.” Obviously, I didnt want her to be uncomfortable so removed the sleeve before having normal PiV sex instead.
It seemed we would never get there…
I was disappointed - and that it wasn’t right for her either, we spoke about it over a drink one eve. She suggested I reduce its length by cutting some off the end, which I did.
(It seemed a little strange cutting the tip of a penis, I had re-assure myself it wasn’t a real one!)
This morning with the lad at school and us both at home we both randy 
she suggested we give it another try. Yay!
After some nice foreplay, I got the sleeve, some water based lube and she slid it into her vagina, the now slightly ‘squared off end’ worried me a little but was fine for her, an auditable ‘pop’ and it was in. Now the test was how did it feel all the way in? To my delight she pushed the whole modified toy in without any discomfort!! It was then my turn to try the ‘mock anus’ once again (knowing it would be the last time if it didn’t work out.)
I pushed in slowly and could feel her adjusting to the extra girth… I’m asking her if its “ok?” She says “yes - slide it into me”…
Sliding almost all the way in, I’m then feeling her pushing back toward me (instead of away as last time, this time it’s as sexy as hell.)
I gradually built up speed - this feels like the real deal… I’m looking at her gorgeous arse and my brain is accepting pretty damned well that we are actually doing real anal!!! I’m balls deep in there now and she is still pushing toward me…
The feeling is so intense and even OH getting really off on it, thrusting toward me and gasping audiable pleasure, saying “f**k my arse”… omg omg… a huge explosion is looming, balls and penis twitching and surging heavily, then I come hard, pulling back a little to allow room inside and then filling up what feels like her whole “arse”
We stop and settle, I then pull out and much sperm gushes out. My brain switches back to reality.
I then retrieve the sleeve from the beautiful hot vagina before going down on her licking eagerly to bring her to an almighty climax…
Afterwards we talk about it…
She says the extra ‘stretch’ it gives her is a really pleasurable feeling and now no more uncomfortable length issue, it feels good.
I admit, I was little frustrated last time, but this forum does say its OK to have a “moan”
Whatsmore, what didn’t help me was something she had told me sometime back - niggling away at me… apparently her first BF was ‘hung like a donkey’ with a huge penis they had measured at 8 and a half inches in length - I’m guessing big girth too but I recall her saying they didn’t measure that.
Anyway… it made me wonder then, why this sleeve at almost 8" was uncomfortable for her?
I guess I was a little jealous of her first BF 
Altough I shouldn’t be - now thinking one reason maybe why they split up? He was uncomfortable for her?
I’m so glad for my 6" version!
Whatever, its all sorted now.
A great morning spent, and a result! Something we are BOTH happy to do again.
Of course my FANTASY is real anal which I know cannot be realised. I am weaning my mind off this and obviously this new found alternative is helping to fix me… eventually hope not to miss ‘the real thing’ at all, as I have done successfully with her not wanting to swallow BJ’s. (Another BF came in her throat once - she was sick and will not entertain sperm in her mouth again.)
The COMPROMISE (a part of any relationship) has worked out fine. If the sleeve had not worked this time, it would have been dusguarded or simply used for her to use on me by hand or for solo. I was even contemplating getting one of those lifelike bum and vagina toys which she said she would interact with me using it for anal intercourse while she watches and touches me. If that didn’t work, I was even contemplating having hypnosis therapy to ‘switch off’ my urge for anal.
With OH blessing the sleeve rating has now increased to 8/10. I think LH should stock it.
Thank you to those who helped us. We have gained so much from you. 69’s sorted! Anal ‘illusion’ - sorted. I too now know what the term PiV means and have been using it!
O and some solo play realised and helped with too.
thanks again.
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Ah excellent. Great team work both!
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