So i am very exsperieced in the toy department and have a wide variety, me and my partner who has never used toys in a relationship or with anyone wants to start using them. however i dont know what i can use that fun for the both of us,thats not to basic and not to advanced, obviouly we have used cock rings but he ays the vibrating cock rings make him feel numb. we are not into anal or anything like that.
anyone got any advice?
a wand with a sleeve attachment? my OH is inexperienced with toys too and this will be the first thing we try 
is this for something you want to use during intercourse that you will both enjoy? or are you open for suggestions that one of you might use on the other?
Hey master, a few little basics would be the following:
A small wand
Bullet vibe
Stroker such as the blow yo for oral play
Fun lubes such as flavoured or tingly ones
Hand cuffs or Silk bondage rope which is super easy to use
Blindfold and some teasing toys like a tickler
It really depends on what you are both into, cock sleeves are fun and work well, plenty of different variations from size enhancing to really good textures to get you off. The new sexy summer bundle has a load of toys which are great for beginners and couples:
i have a wand and we have used that but i havent bought an attachment yet!
i highly recommend them though was one of my first toys other than a rabbit that i bought
I’d start with a bullet vibrator, cock ring and/or a stroker such as a tenga egg :)
Edit: just saw your update. A cock ring might help with that problem as they tend to restrict blood flow keeping the penis harder for longer. You can get ones with decent vibrations to stimulate you but not him.
Looking for a something we can use as a couple but not on him just me. we having problems with him cumming early etc and have popped the delay in my basket
NatandTom wrote:
I’d start with a bullet vibrator, cock ring and/or a stroker such as a tenga egg :)
hes not into the idea of using anything on him but i would like to
Sub wrote:
is this for something you want to use during intercourse that you will both enjoy? or are you open for suggestions that one of you might use on the other?
Looking for a something we can use as a couple but not on him just me. we having problems with him cumming early etc and have popped the delay in my basketSum
1993princess wrote:
a wand with a sleeve attachment? my OH is inexperienced with toys too and this will be the first thing we try
have a wand and we have used that but i havent bought an attachment yet!
i highly recommend them though was one of my first toys other than a rabbit that i bought
NatandTom wrote:
I’d start with a bullet vibrator, cock ring and/or a stroker such as a tenga egg :)
Edit: just saw your update. A cock ring might help with that problem as they tend to restrict blood flow keeping the penis harder for longer. You can get ones with decent vibrations to stimulate you but not him.
i do have one but he complained it made him a bit numb, men are just fussy
That could be due to the type of vibrations. He might just need something that’s rumbly rather than buzzy. Which one do you already have?
NatandTom wrote:
That could be due to the type of vibrations. He might just need something that’s rumbly rather than buzzy. Which one do you already have?
its one of the black ones off here think its a tracey cox one i also have a rechargable one from another brand.
I often recommend these.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19809
They're a lot of fun, and really versatile.
We also have this which is great for nipples as well as clit simulation. You have to hold it right to not lose all the vibrations into your hand, but it's pretty simple to work out.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12201
I haven't had much luck with any male toys yet. I've tried a few of the obvious ones but I don't seem to have the right sort of penis. 🙂
Hi MOST,
If you are looking for something for him to use on you whilst you use a bullet then i would highly recommend a glass dildo. I love to play with my wife whilst she is using her bullet.
My favourite to use is the LH beaded dildo. It is curved though so can be a bit tricky in use with a bullet, i would recommend the LH swirl glass dildo. Its straighter so won't knock your bullet, bulbous head for teasing. The swirls are great for slow thrusting. An added bonus is glass toys can be used for temperature play, the wife hates feeling cold but a cold glass dildo she absolutely love.
Vibration wise, the Fun Factory Amorino Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator is great. Take the band off and the ears turn it round and the ears tease the perineum. Its also short so if he gets carried away thrusting it won't go in to far and hurt.
I'll add a +1 to K&c30's suggestion of glass dildos. My wife loves the beaded one too.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30946
We use it with the mini-magic quite regularly and find that doesn't get in the way too much, depending on position.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37806
It's also included in a bundle right now too at a great price.
Im interested in the glass one but im worried of any cracks or cuts with it being glass.
That’s a common worry however I’ve never experienced anything but perfect smoothness and never heard of any issues from normal use.
It’s all just trial and error in my eyes, my wife now never had any experience with toys where as i had a lot so i just slowly introduced various types until we found ones she loves. everyone is different