me and the OH have been considering a 3some was just wondering the best way about it do we go on a dating site, use a friend or a stranger?? and what do you people prefer mmf or mff
Some of my clients come to me to have a threesome. I offer either MMF and MFF. The main thing I do is always talk to both party members when they arrange this kind of session with me, as you really have to make sure they are both 100% comfortable.
Some people do find people on dating sites, although I personally prefer to use dating sites for just dating and not hooking up. I get annoyed when I get loads of messages from people just looking for a quick shag.
Another option is attending swinging parties or other sex events.
Generally it's rare to fine a couple who have had a threesome with a friend , which has worked.
The Nymphomaniac wrote:
Some of my clients come to me to have a threesome. I offer either MMF and MFF. The main thing I do is always talk to both party members when they arrange this kind of session with me, as you really have to make sure they are both 100% comfortable.
Some people do find people on dating sites, although I personally prefer to use dating sites for just dating and not hooking up. I get annoyed when I get loads of messages from people just looking for a quick shag.
Another option is attending swinging parties or other sex events.
Generally it's rare to fine a couple who have had a threesome with a friend , which has worked.
just wondering how do i go about looking 4 swinging partys??
There's some sites in which you can find via google =) If not word of mouth tens to be the next way to find them.
Being a couple *looking* for things like swinging parties I'd say openness and word of mouth is probably easier as we've had little to no luck using the standard websites. But with 2 young children to think of and our parents on all our social network sites we're not that desperate to do it that we want them to find out >.<
You need to be careful!
Having a threesome is a great fantasy but it can potentially damage your relationship with jealousy.
You need to sit and have a good, long discussion about it with your partner and set out some rules/boundaries (for example, no other man if allowed to penetrate me vaginally)
we have been talking about it im willing for him (if we make it a mmf) to penatrate vaginally but with protection on only because she want some double penatration but will only let me in her arse
Hi,
Can anyone tell me a genuine site to search for male escorts will to be part of a 3some...?
I would be interested to follow this thread.
A FFM threesome has been a fantasy of mine. However, when I really think about it and the ins and outs.. I don't think I could do it. Sometimes a fantasy is really best left as a fantasy in all fairness. The idea of any sort of infections terrify me. It could potentially cause a lot of damage. I also think deep down whether I like it or not, I'm a very jealous person. I really do fear there would be no coming back from it if we were both to go ahead with it. Also the fear of getting caught up on the darker side of things is quite scary for me. I've heard of people posing as a single girl but in reality it's a hooker, and then blackmail. Obviously not everyone's experience is like this I know but the danger I guess is there.
I think you really both have to be completley honest about your feelings, it's really not something to go along with just to please the other party, it's got the potential to destroy a relationship. Whatever you decide to do, have fun and enjoy!
We are on fabswingers . My only advice is to talk to each other and only do or go as far as you are both happy with. Happy swinging and enjoy x
Thanks!
Has this site worked well for you...?
Had a FFM threesome. Honestly wasnt as good we expected it would be. Kinda average. And we wont be repeating due to the fact on occasion I feel self-hating moods and it gives me too much material to use against myself.
All Im saying is, be sure you want to do it. I would do it again, but only if I was single.
I suppose lots of us have fantasised about this, whether MMF or FFM. A stable 3 Way would have to be based on more than sex, and the easy answer if you just want that is to look up Escorts on line. S/he gets her fee, and you and your OH walk away together. W never got around to doing it, and it's maybe just as well!