So how do I convince my wife to peg me on a more regular basis. She does every once in a blu moon. But I’d love for it to be a little more often
Hello and welcome @frostednoselos 
Have you tried asking her?
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Hi @frostednoselos, welcome to the forum 
I can’t add anything more to what @Ian_Chimp said, just talk to her and tell her how much you would enjoy it.
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There used to be a magic pattern that you had to put into your partners toes like a cheat code on the PlayStation to get them to do what ever you wanted all the time.
Really hard to get right though so I would try to just talk to them 
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Just ask. Let her know how much it means to you and how much you enjoy it.
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@frostednoselos The first thing you need to do is try to find out why she only does it once in a blue moon. There are lots of things it could be. Do you ask her to do it for you and she declines, or do you wait for her to offer to do it for you. If you can find out her reasoning it will be easier to find a possible solution which suits you both.
You are asking for something for you, and if she is not into it then it much more of an ask. This is where the why of it comes in; but it still may be that she just doesn’t like doing it, and that you must accept.
But if there is one or more reasons she is not keen then there may be a way to make it something which she could enjoy; if you can find some sort to solution which she is onboard with.
She may find it too much of a dominant thing to do, if she likes to be more submissive, she could feel that it’s not really something she is comfortable with a man liking. She may not like the idea of a penis shaped toy, if that’s what you have; which may make her wonder if you could have some latent homosexual tendencies. ( there is absolutely nothing gay about pegging, but some people do think that it may be ).
She could be scared of mess, or hurting you, she could be not getting anything for herself from it. ( there are a few things to help with that if you find that’s the reason. You can always come back to this topic and ask about that latter )
Maybe the strapon is too much for her, at least for now, she could feel more up for say using a hand held dildo, or such on you instead.
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Just say listen, I need peggin! Get to it 
in a nice way though 
I drop subtle hints like leaving the dildo, harness and lube out on the kitchen table.
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Haha what is your direct hint if that was the subtle one.
Never needed one. My subtle hints seem to do the trick.
Sheds a whole new light on a certain Buddy Holly song, doesn’t it? 
Back when my wife was physically able , all I had to do was ask . Now that my sex time is 98% solo I made an adjustable angle and height holder for suction mount dildos . I am in the process of making a f__king machine , but some components cost so much I may just buy one . Retired machinist BTW . Good luck and tread carefully while trying to bring her around .
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Pegging. The final frontier (or rear). Need to ask the wife nicely first
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