Exactly !!!
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When you being a cuckqueen did you have other partners too or was it solely him who had an extra partner?
I would like to try this. I don’t know if the first time I would want OH to be in the same house but maybe not watching just for confidence sake. It is a fantasy of mine.
May I ask what you think the thrill will be for you? Is it compersion, the opposite of jealousy seeing him have fun, or watching a couple have sex, or knowing that he is yours and will come back to you, or what? I am really interested to know.
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I personally wouldn’t need to be watching my partner. Just the thought of it alone is enough for me. I have thought about it in the past as to why it’s a fantasy of mine and I have a few reasons.
Firstly I really like being degraded during sex, nothing to extreme just things like being peed on, spat on. I also like being called degrading names again nothing to extreme like slut, whore. Another reason is I know my man is extremely sexy and amazing in bed and that also turns me on the thought of him pleasing another woman and enjoying himself.
I personally would never be interested in sleeping with another man.
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Obviously you would want him to explain everything he has done and how he felt emotionally in detail afterwards.
If you do manage to do it you should try and do this in bed as you ‘reclaim’ him. You will be able to smell her off him if you can do this quite quickly afterwards.
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Yes I absolutely would like to know every detail or as much detail he was willing to share that is.
That would be an added bonus if I could smell her perfume on him or lipstick stain on his lips.
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The person having another partner must realise the importance of sharing in the minutest detail every aspect of the meeting as the listening party will be able to relive this over in their heads time and time again. Any skipping over or generalisation will rob the listener of the full experience of their partner having sex with someone else. This will be the as true for cuckqueen as cuckold. As was said earlier we need more discussion on cuckqueens.
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Would you want to know who the other woman is? or prefer that she may be next to you in the supermarket and they both know and you don’t?
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I wouldn’t mind either way. I think it could be easier not knowing just in case it triggered some underlining jealously. I’m not a jealous person so I couldn’t see that happening but who knows.
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I would love it, both being bull or cuck
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Mrs Horny at 50 and myself are swingers and recently she has become a hot wife and our relationship and marriage are stronger than ever, we should have done it when we were young.
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Me and my ex had a pretty open relationship, she had a girlfriend we played with and we also had a couple we played with, she loved when I watched her with both of them and a few times she wanked him off into my mouth to finish him off after he would have sex with her either vaginally or anally.
It was sexy to know she was just using us both for her pleasure
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If it was ever to happen then yer absolutely we would have limits and boundaries but it will definitely never be a thing.
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I will disagree with most that have posted. I am all in for cuckold whether male or female as long as it 100% consensual…
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And I will add, are willing to take the risk of feeling different themselves or the other person feeling differently after the fact. For some it works out fine , but for others it can change everything even after consent.
I never have and I wouldn’t risk losing what I have with my OH. That is just me and not to be projected on anyone else.
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You make a very valid point @Pogo69 but I can take your quote above and apply it directly to swinging or a threesome as two other examples. It has to be right for you and yours… not a guess.
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I’m quite sure that cuck activity is a fantasy for many men AND WOMEN. It’s when you decide to advance that fantasy into a reality that the decisions need to be considered carefully.
COMMUNICATION is vital otherwise it’s a recipe for disaster.
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Doesn’t most of sex and sexuallity drill down to COMMUNICATION?
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Yeah, I don’t see how unfaithfulness (even consensual) is particularly good for a relationship. Perhaps it sounds weird, but I like my multi-partner relationship. I like it if my husband is having sex with one of our other partners. But outside our nest? Hell no. I’m normally pretty mild, but I really dislike that thought. I’d start to get vicious and territorial.
Its not so much about the sex itself, its about the integrity and permanence of our family unit. If I was going to find another partner, it would be with the intent of bringing her into our family and keeping her, rather than going outside the family.
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Yep. My relationship with my OH is so much more than just sex. I would sacrifice sex to have the rest of the relationship with my OH. She is that important to me!
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