Mistress D - My OH just can't get past the icky factor. I only just ( after being together for 15 years ) to taste her own pussy juices and accept that it isn't disgusting and tastes quite nice ( and massively turns us both on ).
She will let me cum in her mouth now and then but the whole lot gets drooled back onto me ( still very horny ) or runs off and spits it into the sink ( bit of a turn off really )
I love the idea of her swallowing as it like she wants every part of me and that my cum is hers to devour. Running away to spit in the sink feels like she's rejecting part of me. Maybe I'm being oversensitive but that's how it feels.
And i'm a lazy git at heart and there would be no cleaning up and we could just cuddle ?
Why not keep a cup nearby for her to spit in, and a bottle of water if she needs to rinse her mouth? That way you can still cuddle, and it won't feel so rejecting.
After she's over the cold of course. I don't even want to THINK about sex when I'm sick.
I'm not sure if people are trying to wind me up or not but I just want to be clear I HAVE NOT and WILL NOT be asking her this. I was only thinking to myself in a sort of curious way that I would ever try this on as a way of getting her to swallow for the very first time.
Blondii - thanks for the optimism. Not feeling it today at all though.
Oh that didn't come out right. Basically I think I'm a fairly decent sensitive fella and wouldn't have been with my partner 15yrs if I was insensitive as asking her to swallow when she's feeling ill.
It's okay. It wasn't quite obvious at the first that it was a joke request - you never know when some inexperienced teenager is going to get hold of a computer and ask something silly - but I think anyone following the thread this long knows you were never going to do that.
(But the spit cup and water bottle was a serious suggestion. I can see how running to the sink would be a huge turn off.)
The trouble is with that I never know when once in a while it'll happen and she is the kind of person who would ask why I was bringing up a cup and some water etc. That wouldn't be a nice conversation.
The trouble is with that I never know when once in a while it'll happen and she is the kind of person who would ask why I was bringing up a cup and some water etc. That wouldn't be a nice conversation.
Dont do it before the act, but talk about it outside the bedroom.
Thanks AA - very thoughtful of you to suggest so much.
It's not that she doesn't like it as she's never tried it at all not with me or anyone else. She just has a mental barrier against it. I've said it would really turn me on to do it but have not pressured her or anything like that.
We always have tissues by the bed. That might be a good suggestion to spit into them rather than the sink.
I don't like condoms at all. I get next to no sensation and you wouldn't win any points with my mrs suggesting that she spends even longer sucking me than she already does. Sometimes I have to contract my pelvic muscles to gee things along a bit before her jaw drops off. I just love the whole thing so much I'm in no rush for it to end quickly.
Flavoured lubes is again back to the issue that she's never tried so can't even say that it's a taste issue. I tried pineapple juice for a while and I'm not a smoker but it didn't affect taste in any way she noticed in the time it was in her mouth.
I've long given up trying to change her but am now just sort of saying look x,y and z really would/does turn me on and making her feel comfortable to ask or request anything that would help her.
Can any1 give me any tips 4 swallowing. i have tried it a few times but really dont enjoy it. I can put up with the taste its the texture that I hate. I want to cos I know it would really turn my man on, & after 12 yrs together we want to spice it up in the bedroom dept
Can any1 give me any tips 4 swallowing. i have tried it a few times but really dont enjoy it. I can put up with the taste its the texture that I hate. I want to cos I know it would really turn my man on, & after 12 yrs together we want to spice it up in the bedroom dept
Thanks A A, thats made me feel better, its not him that wants me too I just want to be able to do it. We tried it in the beginning of our relationship, & it put me off for yrs. I like your ideas especially on the boobies. i guess its all about personal preference. Cant wait for tonight!
Not sure if this helps, but my OH never liked to swallow. Then one night she just did it out of the blue to surprise me. After that she decided that swallowing was much better than spitting as she actually tastes it less that way, it goes down as soon as it comes (so to speak), whereas if she spits it out she at least has to hold on to it long enough to find a tissue.
I didn't mind her not swallowing, but it did kind of break the mood a little.
As for coming on boobs, that's great :-) But, if you get carried away and a little bit of it gets in her hair, that's not good apparently. I don't think I'll be getting any BJs in the near future after that little mishap :(
I think the main issue was that it was a little unexpected... to be honest I was suprised too, I didn't think I had the range! Shame, it was excellent fun until then, there's something very naughty about coming on a woman's body - a bit "porn-esque" I suppose.
My girlfriend isn't a fan of me coming on her face, but when I was coming on her tits once I underestimated how good i was and overshot into her hair, she just laughed.
When ever she has a sore throat I often joke that I can give her some 'moisturiser' to help, but wouldn't dream of actually doing it if she wasn't feeling well.
