Cumming in my ass

I hate to be "Captain Obvious" here but if this is a FWB situation and you are not exclusive I would hope you are practicing safer sex and using condoms, especially with anal sex.

To me in this situation condoms are a "win / win" for you as you are more protected against STDs and clean up of cum is no issue if your partner wants to cum duing anal penetration.

+1 :)