Almost forgot to shoutout the sexual happiness podcast: How Can I Give the Best Oral Sex? 
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Highly recommended a book called "she comes first"
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Tease her as long as you can and make clear that you love going down on her. Tell her how incredible she smells, then how delicious she tastes. Tell her you can’t wait to lap all her sexy juices, then do it and moan on pleasure like it’s the best thing you’ve ever tasted in your life.
My wife and I have an incredible experience every week when I give her an hour of tantric cunnilingus. We are both in heaven. She has a bath, reads erotica to get herself feeling horny while I massage her and work up her inner thighs with featherlight touches with my fingertips. We then make out while I touch her through her knickers. I then tease around her knickers until she’s begging me to eat her out properly. I plunge my tongue inside her and stay there with my nose pushing onto her clitoral hood and my upper lip just tickling her clit. She raises her legs and get so wet and turned on that after a few minutes I can just about reach the edge of her G spot with the tip of my tongue. We are both in heaven and stay like this for ages. Eventually I stimulate her more and gradually crescendos up towards an almighty climax. The feeling of her orgasmic contractions pulsing on my tongue almost brings me off myself.
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The best way to get your partner to love cunnilingus is to give her an orgasm with your tongue. It is an amazing experience to be licked and penetrated by a tongue and to be brought to orgasm this way is mind blowing. Since my husband did this successfully I have been a devotee. I will admit that he took quite a while to get me there but once he understood what he needed to do to push my button so to speak, he could get me there any time he wanted. Perseverance is obviously required and guidance from the receiver helps.
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That’s a fair point, but if you wife is reluctant or (as she is fully entitled to) refuses, then that isn’t really an option?
You can’t give someone an orgasm with your tongue, to convince them to let you use your tongue, if they won’t let you use your tongue?
Another vote for communication … make sure you tell her every day how much you love her, how much she turns you on by just being who she is and occasionally throw in how much you love lavishing attention on the most intimate part of her body. If she feels secure in your love and understands that that part of her body is something you cherish and enjoy going down to, it might make her feel more comfortable.
This is Al’s OH writing. The first time he did that to me I was in heaven! He made me cum after what I think was quite a while - fingers and tongue action. He sucked my clit like a penis and THAT’S what put me over the top. Yep, I paid him back after I calmed down. We’ve done oral instead of getting laid a few times
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Does she pegg you then or is it just you performing anal on her?
Sometimes I get pegged. Sometimes just sucked. When she pegs me, I get sucked off!!
Sorry @aljerram my question was aimed at @DaveH as he said that he did anal with his wife but it was not her preference. I thought maybe he should give her the opportunity to do it to him so he knows what it feels like for her. 
I never liked my husband going down on me. Why you ask? I think it was because i thought it was dirty and i would be embarrassed about him seeing me up close and personal and worried that i would taste awful. I was not keen on tasting myself on him when we would kiss afterwards. About 6 months ago my sexual appetites increased and my fears sort of disappeared and now i allow my husband to do pretty much what he wants. i always make sure that i am clean down there though. He needs more practice but he is getting better. 
My OH told me she keeps herself clean there because we are very active sexually and she never knows if I’m going to kiss her there - I do - a lot! Good hygiene on our parts keeps it good
I love giving my wife cunalingus as long as she is freshly showered but wish she would trim a bit or go completely smooth like she used to when we were first together
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You should mention it to her. Nothing worse than getting pubes stuck in your teeth. I shave and trim the little bit left and husband shaves as well down there.
I am totally smooth usually as I like it that way but, my partner hasn’t got the energy to. maybe I could do it for her just trim it short,I would be fine with that
Just be careful if using scissors.
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lol I will use my beard trimmer
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Take it slow and build up.
Suck and gently nibble the clit.
I totally agree with you BloveC…communication is key but also I find that most women are very concious and sometimes embarassed about what their vagina looks like and smells and therefore they are reluctant to let or enjoy a man going down on them..my wife will never agree to me going down on her .
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Very nicely said !!!