Ok, my wife and I are into anything basically in bed. I have recently seen women are searching for Daddy porn but it suppoedly is not about having sex with their daddy mainly just a woman likes to say it during sex to an older guy and it makes her feel like a little slut? I am ready to dive in on this in bed and try, but it does feel odd asking my wife to call me Daddy? Like I said, theres not much we do not do but I do not want to ruin the mood by saying Call me Daddy or something to that nature and she freaks out LOL. Ladies a little help on this one? Seems a little odd to me this Daddy Phenomenon. A little advice on this please because I'm ready to be Daddy if it is that hot!
Why do you want her to call you Daddy? Because it might be hot? Because it is hot to other people? Not great reasons to be fair. Just because you are up for anything doesn’t actually mean you have to try everything. If you are genuinely interested and think hearing her call you daddy will be a turn on, then go for it. If you are just trying it for something to do, it’s likely to either be a bit silly or a mood killer (for either or both of you)
if you do want to try it, don’t bring it up mid sex. Have a chat about it when neither of you are horny
This must be for people who don't have kids. I associate being called 'daddy' with having to painstakingly mediate nonsense arguments, rescue toys trapped down radiators, or to wipe a shitty arse. 🙂
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You could always talk with your wife about it and ask if she is up for calling you daddy during sex? Do you get excited yourself about the thought if your wife calling you daddy? Definitely a discussion needed I think.
Kelly Michelle, I really dont want her to call me daddy so to speak. My question was based on a thing I saw saying women's number one porn search is that now. So my thought is I will maybe see if it peaks her interest by hinting at it. Mainy it would be because if she thinks it is hot I 'm all for it if it excites her. It sounds like it is more of a thing women like so I was just reaching out to see if anybody on here uses the term in bed or plays with there woman that way. Was looking for advice as to why this is such a thing now.
Ian Chimp wrote:
This must be for people who don't have kids. I associate being called 'daddy' with having to painstakingly mediate nonsense arguments, rescue toys trapped down radiators, or to wipe a shitty arse. 🙂
This...all of this
I think if anyone called me.daddy during sex, the warm up to sex or anythibg sexual was going on, then I'd be done. Stop. Time to go and think about what was said there...I have a kid Ann's they are the only human who can call me daddy because it warms my heart, if a partner called me it I hope they are saying something like "ask your daddy" nothing sexual from me I'm afraid
My OH is a silver fox and I do find myself attracted to older men. I never call him 'Daddy' though, despite my own 'daddy issues' and us having a sub/dom dynamic. We don't have a DDLG relationship so it's not really a 'thing' for us. I don't mind a bit of daddy kink porn but it doesn't tend to seep into the bedroom. I suspect if your wife was that way inclined it would have cropped up organically before now. There's a lot of stuff/kinks in porn that I'm like - good for you, not for me. I think you know on a gut level if anything is going to float your boat. Maybe 'Master' or 'Sir' would be more appropriate if you find Daddy doesn't work, it's the same sort of deal.
My OH is 52 and I am 25, I often call her mom or mummy and we do have a Dom/sub relation ship but more domestic if you know what I mean , no latex or boots but I do end up across her knee and she is in charge no arguments! I have (lots) of chores to do and she has the final say or else I get grounded, curfew, spanked etc
LOL Mr Chimp!
Yeah the whole Daddy thing, not for me.
As above, if I was calling Mr L Daddy, I too would be thinking about the kids I have just put to bed inbetween trying to brush their teeth and stopping their arguments.. not such a turn on haha!!
I’m happy enough if she’s put down her phone for the event let alone what we call each other 😂 Hello Mrs L, long time no giggles! Trust all is good with you.
Another vote here for "I just dont get it". Plus Im sure I heard on the R Kelly documentary that he insisted the "young" women he was involved with call him Daddy. Urrghh
I dont get it either. That is why I asked for the ladies responses on it. Supposedly it is the number one search for females so if they think it's hot i'm all for trying it. Obviously if it is the number one search it does not reflect on the responses here it appears.
ChrisLve wrote:
I dont get it either. That is why I asked for the ladies responses on it. Supposedly it is the number one search for females so if they think it's hot i'm all for trying it. Obviously if it is the number one search it does not reflect on the responses here it appears.
Out of interest, where did you read that it was the number one search? I think if it's a consensual thing that both parties find arousing (or at least where one finds it arousing and the other is indifferent but willing to give it a go) then I'm all for it. 👍
I have a bit of a 'little' kink so would get pleasure from calling my partner Daddy in the moment but it would get more from being called baby back. I am also childless
All well thanks NIbbleNob, good to see a familair face!
Oooo yes I too would like to know where that number on search came from! Mine would look something like 'lesbians' and 'close up f*cks' hahahaha
I've never understood the Daddy thing but I have seen it being used here and there. It would be like my partner calling me Mummy/Mommy- it would creep me out. Lol.
But to each their own :)
I would love my wife to call me daddy. There's something very erotic about the taboo powerplay element. It's also just cute - and I like anything cute in the bedroom.
I've discussed this with her, and she mainly just thought it was creeepy. We have some other DDLG elements to our sexlife, and she did once tell me she was a daddy's girl while we were having sex. But overall, she has a normal, close, healthy relationship with her real dad, and I guess she doesn't want to associate that with the bedroom in any way - which is completely understandable.
For balance: I also would be very happy calling her "mummy" if she wanted (which she doesn't). And I have a completely normal relationship with my own mother, with no mummy issues to speak of! So I dunno.
I searched because I noticed all of these daddy panties and tops and temporary tattoos and didn't understand why. . A Google search showed articles that it is the number one search for women now. Whether that is just one article and means nothing I have no clue. I do know there is a large amount on Amazon Ebay and other items available. I suggest searching and see what you think. Like I said if it is exciting to women I would be all for it but it did seem odd.
I did have a quick google for 'top porn search results' and that gave me the Pornhub 2018 round-up. 'Daddy' didn't even make the top 10 for women (Lesbian, Japanese, Hentai, threesome, & Korean being the top 5). It did manage a place in the top 3 of 'most viewed gay categories' which I thought was interesting.
Though we're 7 months into 2019 now so maybe it's had a good year?
I did find an article from 2016 that claimed 'daddy/daughter' was the most searched for porn term in states that voted for Trump, but that seems to be a spoof as the full results were Daddy/Daughter 62%, Cuck/Cuckold 18%, Cross burning 10%, Butt stuff 8%, Anything not racist 2%. They also have a (I'm assuming fictitious) response from Trump about the data in which he says, “ [it's] only natural to be curious how your family members fuck, especially if they’re hot like my daughter is.”
Ian Chimp wrote:
I did have a quick google for 'top porn search results' and that gave me the Pornhub 2018 round-up. 'Daddy' didn't even make the top 10 for women (Lesbian, Japanese, Hentai, threesome, & Korean being the top 5). It did manage a place in the top 3 of 'most viewed gay categories' which I thought was interesting.
Though we're 7 months into 2019 now so maybe it's had a good year?
I did find an article from 2016 that claimed 'daddy/daughter' was the most searched for porn term in states that voted for Trump, but that seems to be a spoof as the full results were Daddy/Daughter 62%, Cuck/Cuckold 18%, Cross burning 10%, Butt stuff 8%, Anything not racist 2%. They also have a (I'm assuming fictitious) response from Trump about the data in which he says, “ [it's] only natural to be curious how your family members fuck, especially if they’re hot like my daughter is.”
Slow day in the Chimp household? 