Would someone please suggest what products to use to practice deep throating. I bought a PVC 6 inch anal dildo that is 4 inches in circumference. This was ok and I am wondering about anything bigger.
What is the largest circumference size that you have tried?
I am considering PVC 5 inch in circumference but not sure if that is too wide.
Also what material is the most comfortable. I tried rubber but that seems to be to hard.
Do you have any websites that give tips on how to practice deep throating.
A well lubricated throat is important so drinks lots of water before hand and I’d advise using actual lubricant as-well (maybe something flavoured if that’s your thing) to make the material easier to glide into your mouth. I’d personally recommend silicone for this type of play and as long as there’s some good lubricant involved, this should be a soft enough material for you to use comfortably. Tips wise just take it slow and relax, don’t forget to breathe and possibly try out different positions to see what works best for you. I usually find it easiest to deepthroat when I have my head hanging off the side of the bed as this seems to provide the most space but this may not be the case for you. It’s all about experimenting. Have fun :)
A well lubricated throat is important so drinks lots of water before hand and I’d advise using actual lubricant as-well (maybe something flavoured if that’s your thing) to make the material easier to glide into your mouth. I’d personally recommend silicone for this type of play and as long as there’s some good lubricant involved, this should be a soft enough material for you to use comfortably. Tips wise just take it slow and relax, don’t forget to breathe and possibly try out different positions to see what works best for you. I usually find it easiest to deepthroat when I have my head hanging off the side of the bed as this seems to provide the most space but this may not be the case for you. It’s all about experimenting. Have fun :)
Great advice from 'NatandTom'! 😃
It's given me some tips too, such as using lube orally (didn't know you could do this!). I usually don't bother with lube when I 'DT' hubby and wonder why I have a sore throat after sometimes?!! lol. 😮
Of course, I need to research buying the appropriate lubes for oral! x Any recommendations would be fab please. x Thanks.
Emerald, the Lovehoney flavoured lubes are great. We like the Strawberry most but the mint is fun if my partner fancies a little extra stimulation as it gives off a little bit of a tingle. My personal fave is Sliquid’s Green Apple though :)
I would advise against using any of the Durex flavours as they’re very artificial and sticky which doesn’t help much (and the ingredients upset both my partner and I, no fun!) x
found some tips througha search engine cosmopolitan (as in the magazine) website has a great article.
I trained on a penis rather than a toy so i am not an expert on this. But i do recommend a toy that isnt too rigid for training as a little flex should be natural to help slip down your throat. i also recommend silicon and the more realistic toys are probably great for this.
Biggest tip is relax as much as possible and let it slide in. Also it is so important to time your breathing, you can really show off your deepthroating skills and let the man take control if you have confidence that you can breath with every outward thrust, i find i only ever gag when i have miss timed a breath.
My OH learnt to deep throat with advice she got of the internet, it taught her what was the best angle, how to get deeper bit by bit and how control her gag reflex, shes an absolute expert at it now which is mind blowing for me. Unfortunately I cant tell you where she got the advice from as it was a surprise for me but I do know she googled it and what ever she found worked believe me!!
thanks for the tip. I bought a pvc 10 inch dildo 5 inch in circumference, and couldn't get it down into my throat. Maybe the opening into my throat is too small, or I am not doing something.
This is one of my two favourite things I would love my wife to do to me.......anyway back to reality. Maybe like others have suggested practice going deeper and deeper on a dildo over time, your main issue will be improving your gag reflex.
As someone currently trying to master the skill, the tips here (lube, trying to yawn/swallow, timing breathing) are all helping. Apparently I was only almost there few nights ago (had my eyes closed, trying to concentrate!), but I’m not stopping until I touch his stomach with my nose! I have tried practising on a dildo as well, but to be honest it is easier practising on the husband.....I find increasingly I get aroused sucking on the real thing and this in turn makes me relax all my muscles, thus helping the process.
My gf has learned to deep throte now and it's amazing she just kept taking it deeper little by little till she could take it all. She has a good gag reflex though so don't think all women can do it but I'm a guy, she maybe know better, have to ask her. Lol
Definitely enjoying it is the best thing. The hornier I get and the more aroused I get the deeper I can take it.
My big problem seems to be throat infections. I have super sensitive tonsils and when I was younger I used to get flare ups a couple of times a year. Now I'm older and a huge fan of sucking dick, deep throating even the squeakiest clean penis seems to give me troubles. Any one else have that issue and/or know a way around it?
It might be a long standing problem, but I would say it warrants a trip to the GP or sexual health clinic if you haven’t seen anyone recently about this. I would venture that getting some throat swabs done would be the minimum they could do, just to check you haven’t got some low grade infection loitering in there. I’m sure they will be able to do something to help, best of luck.
I trained my sub/slave with daily practice sessions where she started of just taking me (I’m 7 1/2") as deep as she could with each stroke. After a few minutes of this I had her start holding me as deep as she could for a couple seconds. As this progressed I got her to where she could hold me as deep as she could until she needed a breath, then gradually I started not letting her come up by applying pressure to the back of her head and holding her down. Holding her down progressed into her learning to relax and breath through her nose while she was being held down. Then she started learning to relax her throat muscles once she learned to relax her throat she started to swallow at the same time as I would pull down on the back of her head she gently thrust up and I began to feel myself slip into her throat. Before you guys and girls jump in me for forcing her the sub/slave thing was all her idea, the learning to throat me was also her idea, as was the holding her head down and making her learn to breath through her nose while being held down. And holding her down while thrusting up as she relaxed and swallowed, all her idea. I of course didn’t argue it. And I wouldn’t be a good Dom if I allowed her to say she didn’t feel like practicing, or if I let her stop if she didn’t succeed or stop once she did succeed. My role is getting her to improve. And that goes for sex or everyday life. Whether she is being trained to deep throat me or I’m trying to get her to understand she is better than the person who is somehow causing her problems and help her through seeing a way through or around the situation where she comes out unscathed and showing everyone that she is mature and doesn’t have to act the fool and leaves that role for the other person. She just happens to have a rape fetish so making her feel as if she is forced and she doesn’t have a choice and refusing to obey or just not doing what she is being told will result in her coming to harm is a very big part of it. Although the most harm she will come to is being punished by being whipped with a flog, which she loves since it activates her nerve endings and makes the slightest touch be felt through her entire body or she is choked almost too the point of passing out (which was also her idea and I studied how to do it properly to get the most effect without harming her), she loves this especially when she starts coming to and is being made to do what she had been refusing to do (and her refusal is her playing a part, actual refusal would be by the use of her safe word. Only when she uses her safe word does no or don’t or stop actually mean what it says.) But back to the topic. After she got to where she could get me into her throat I started stimulating her clit with a very intense vibrating clit simulator. It’s advertised in eBay as giving an orgasm in 8 seconds. And honestly I have no doubt it could do it in half the time. Once I put direct pressure on her clit with it it’s literally seconds before she will orgasm. And she squirts so there is no faking it for her. But I won’t let her orgasm. Instead I will edge her the half an hour or so. With the edging I might as well move her clit into her throat. I turn the simulator off and before I can put it down she has swallowed me completely and I’m having to fight her back so I can get in a comfortable position. But mostly I have to find my comfortable position with her nose on my stomach, my cock completely down her throat and her tongue licking my testicles while it feels like she is trying to use her tongue to pull them into her mouth as well. As she does this she is trying to get me further down her throat like she isn’t satisfied with having all 7 1/2" of me buried down her throat. At this point I can grab a hand full of hair and use her throat as roughly as I want and she will orgasm multiple times, generally having to have multiple towels on hand to throw beneath her, or stop her and layer them under her, or she will turn the bed into a waterbed. And this can go on for hours, and no in not kidding. We will take smoke breaks and before I’m done with my cigarette she has be buried down her throat again and within a couple minutes she is having another orgasm. She was disgusted with even the thought of a guy finishing in her mouth when we got together. It wasn’t long but pretty much once we started this , within the first 6 months we where together, I have only finished in her mouth for the last 3 1/2-4 years. I always start to shoot before I really feel that I’m climaxing. As soon as it hits the inside of her mouth and she taste it that’s all she wrote. She will orgasm all the way through mine and as long as I can continue to hold on to her hair and use her mouth she will orgasm uncontrollably. She won’t stop until I stop thrusting into her throat and actually allow her to swallow. I know it sounds like a little much and like I have an over active imagination but every word is true. I just took it slow in the beginning and encouraged her. But once she got to see point where she was doing really good and it was obvious she wasn’t going to be hurt and was enjoying what was happening and I was able to be more forceful and Dominate and giving her that feeling of not having any control and that she would be harmed if she didn’t cooperate and obey (and let me state again never at any time has she been or would she have been hurt, I love her way to much to harm her and I’m feeding into her rape fantasy by instigating these feelings in her. And I’m very careful about how I go about bringing these feelings out in her and I’m how I feed those feelings. As well as being there to care for her afterwards by tending to any needs she has, getting her a cold drink, cleaning her up, holding and cuddling her and making sure I tell her how great she did and how much I love her. Basically being there to tend to any physical or emotional need she may have even if she herself doesn’t realize she has the need yet. And early on she didn’t understand that she needed to feel loved afterwards. She was perfectly happy by being told how great she did. But I caught a flash run across her face in night that just said she needed to be loved and that was it. Now I do everything I can to be sure she has no questions as to how much she is loved. And that is the key to BDSM. You start with consent, but you end with aftercare and showing her just how special she is and how much she is loved.) She was my best friend for 10 years before we got together and to she introduced me into this lifestyle due to just seeing that I naturally took control of every situation in my life and I wouldn’t tuck in behind someone and allow them to lead. And that I am very competent in all I do. She is cared for in every way, she doesn’t have to work, she doesn’t have to take care of the house, she has anything she wants and needs. She spends her day doing anything that makes her happy. Generally rehabilitating baby wild animals that have been injured, separated from their mother or somehow have fallen out of the nest so a lot of squirrels, flying squirrels, raccoons, opossums & birds. As well as her snake, 2 mice, my dog and 2 cats. So there is another trick to deep throat training, make her happy, make her feel loved. She has to want to first. Once she wants to and thinks you deserve it and wants to do anything to make you happy then she will put everything she has into it. If you can add making her orgasm by deep throating you then she will never want to stop.