Hey all, looking for reassurance that my issue can be resolved and I’ll tell all below so please read on and be patient
I’m 40 not but I started masturbating edited and knew nothing about it other than hand, fast and porn I guess. When I got sexually active I always struggled to cum,edited, but always able to on my own. Death grip?
I have an understanding wife and we have had an ok sexual relationship, but always had difficulties to cum other than in doggy. Lately we’ve picked up massively and are having lots of sex which is great but my problems still persist.
I have been taking SSRIs for about 4 months which I know can cause issues, my libido is non existent but I can and do maintain an erection. The frustration is driving me insane.
I have been on the NOFAP theory for 6 weeks, no porn, no wanking but sex and still no ejaculation. I’m using the mojo mindful app too. I bought a TENGA sex toy to train me to cum regularly and without any added hand pressure. It felt great, amazing, but I still couldn’t cum unless I used it fast.
How long does it take to realign yourself? I want a normal sex life with my wife and for us both to be happy.
Any advice or tips will be greatly appreciated.