Different positions for clit stimulation

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My partner orgasms better with clitoral stimulation during sex. We have our go to positions, but looking to change things up every now and then

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Our go-to positions:

  • Modified missionary - I (man) am on top, but my legs are on the outside, so my wife’s closed legs create a “Y” shaped junction and I’m locked in a little tighter in the center. I tend to do more grinding than thrusting, usually supporting my weight fully on my arms (like the top of a pushup) and my wife usually stimulates her clit manually or with her vibes of choice. In this position I can also kneel upright and support my weight on the headboard to provide more G-spot simulation and leave more room for toys.
  • Cowgirl and Reverse Cowgirl - the only PIV positions that yield hands-free orgasms for her.

Okay, actually that’s about it for what we do to provide direct clit stimulation just from me/my penis. But plenty of other positions are great for use of a toy on the clit and keeping me out of the way.

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I love stimulating myself (fingers and vibrators) during PIV in the spooning, doggy and reverse cowgirl positions.

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This is Al’s oh. For me it’s not the position but the stimulation I get usually from his finger or tongue that makes me orgasm. I’ve cum from his penis too, but while we’re going at it, I finger my clit or he does and that’ll almost guarantee that I’ll cum.

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Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl.
Doggy
Missionary Modified
Spooning

Are all my go to with a toy while PIV. I also like to play with myself with my fingers and can do that in about any position.

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I’ve learned that my penis is not gonna hit the clit - it’s physically imposible for a hard penis to touch it. I stimulate hers with my tongue or finger to orgasm. I’m not saying she doesn’t cum during sex. But you can’t hit the clit. Unless maybe it’s very large - the clit that is.

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As others have said fingers or toys to stimulate her clit (either her or you) can obviously help. If toys I like using a cordless wand, bullet or womaniser although I wand the easiest and also enjoy the vibes myself.

For positions I’d add to the other suggestions with:

  • The eagle/G Wiz. Similar missionary positions where she lies on her back and lifts her legs up and back toward her head and I kneel in front and either hold her legs up or she’ll rest them on me. If I then lean back a little I can tease her clit with my hands. The position allows deep penetration but when finger teasing her clit it’s more about the angle that and stimulation of her upper vaginal wall. Putting a pillow under her bum can create an even bigger angle to really rub her g-spot as I tease her clit. I get a great view from this position, it’s comfortable and we can have some slow teasing play
  • Blossoming Pose, similar to eagle/gwiz, not as angled or deep but an easier position if she’s not that flexible and still allows toy/finger stimulation of her clit.
  • Face off/ Kama sutra lotas, a cowgirl type position but her legs are forward and we are both sat up. This is a very intimate position, her arms are around my neck and I’ll also support her and encourage her movements as she grinds and stimulates her clit against me. I love kissing her breasts and squeezing or spanking her ass when she does this to me.
  • Cowgirl, already mentioned. When she leans back I get great access to her clit with fingers or toys.
  • Scissors, another easy position to introduce a wand
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In fact, although the penis cannot touch the clitoris, there is a way to achieve good clitoral stimulation with PIV if you grind instead of thrusting.

You can alternate between grinding and thrusting in the most favorable positions such as the one where the woman is on her back with her legs on the man’s shoulders.

This is my favorite position because it gives so much pleasure when it bumps against the cervix and additionally the clitoris is also rubbed against his body and when it is not, I take care of it.

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This is Al’s oh. We’ve only been together a couple years - we’re 21. Sex is still very new to us. Thank you for the advice. Belive me - we’re gonna try this.

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The coital alignment position is also good for clitoral stimulation (with his body).

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@SlutElisa420 I like all of those positions but my favourite one is Cowgirl, I lean back so he’s passing over my G-spot and I rub a press on my clit. I have had amazing orgasms this way.

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