Would really appreciate some advice on this.
Over 14 years of a very active and largely fulfilling sex life with my wife for whatever reason there is an area we have barely ever explored. Not a particularly niche area at all in fact something which many couples seem to tend to experience very early on in their relationships, probably before they even get down to regular sex. This is, wait for it...me fingering my good lady inside the vagina (pretty vanilla huh:(
We've enjoyed regular sex for many years and my OH has always enjoyed and frequently orgasms through finger stimulation of her clitorus however for whatever reason she has always HATED having fingers inside her. This is to the point that if I ever try in the heat of passion to make a move in this direction it irritates her and she gets grouchy, and kind of looks at me as if to say, "what the f*** are you doing that for/does nothing for me"
Anyone ever experienced this?
I would one day like to work up to g spot stimulation and work towards the holy grail of making her squirt as one of those things on the bucket list. Is it just something I have to give up on? Is there a way to work her up to this? Or to even convince her of the potential benefits of at least beginning to explore this area?