Hello this is my first time here, gay single male.
I just ordered my first items from LH few days ago.
I bought Adam's Cock 7 inch as my first dildo and thought I'd be able to handle it but I couldn't so now I just ordered an inflatable vibrating butt plug to hopefully help me take the dildo in instead of buying a smaller less intimidating dildo.
I just dove at the deep end for my first time but oh well, cant wait for the butt plug to arrive lol.
Douched for the first time, used plenty of lube and all my fingers lol (not up to the knuckles), cant even get the head in after like 2 hours oh well.
Even watching porn and listening to Lana Del Rey didn't work.
Dildo don't give the same as a penis buy keep trying and build up with smaller toys first. You'll get there and being stretched feels amazing, don't rush it x
Douched for the first time, used plenty of lube and all my fingers lol (not up to the knuckles), cant even get the head in after like 2 hours oh well.
Even watching porn and listening to Lana Del Rey didn't work.
Dildo don't give the same as a penis buy keep trying and build up with smaller toys first. You'll get there and being stretched feels amazing, don't rush it x
Hello and welcome to Lovehoney. Now then at what point did you think diving in at the deep end was a good idea?
Was you first car a Ferrari? Was your first watch a Rolex? So I would not expect your first dildo to be that size.
I do appreciate your desire for a good toy that your going to enjoy for a long time to come, but please don't go too far too soon. Have you considered this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29893 it is slightly smaller than the one you have tried and not managed. It is also different in terms of the fact that it can be heated by filling with warm water. This would give a very different sensation and it might be a good warm up for your larger toy.
Im a streight lady that doesn't play anally, but I have a good group of friends. A gay couple who I'm very close with (men) have said that it is very important to warm up well and not to go too big or too deep too soon. You risk loosing your muscle tone and may compromise your sphincter control if you do. So we might sound like we are being kill joys, we have your best interests at heart.
I would try a slightly smaller dildo, plenty of lube and relax, DONT force anything. Enjoy playing.
I know there are people who can take a really big dildo, and I too have been tempted, by Adam's Cock. Slightly girthier than advertised, and I now keep it because it is so gorgeous!
The answer, as everyone will tell you, is take it step by step. Or inch by inch! Something about the same size as myself seems to satisfy me, rather well!
Hello and welcome to Lovehoney. Now then at what point did you think diving in at the deep end was a good idea?
haha it was my first time and didnt know what I was doing, i just saw "7 inch" and thought that was a good idea, didnt know about the girth or what not 
I know there are people who can take a really big dildo, and I too have been tempted, by Adam's Cock. Slightly girthier than advertised, and I now keep it because it is so gorgeous!
The answer, as everyone will tell you, is take it step by step. Or inch by inch! Something about the same size as myself seems to satisfy me, rather well!
it is so pretty! been practicing my deepthroating skills with it for the mean time lol
Haha! I did exactly the same thing with my first butt plug.
Took me four years of playing with other toys before going back to it and being successful!
What you've chosen is pretty high up in the girth area!
Maybe get another smaller one, it certainly won't be a waste.
With the inflatable but plug, I also had the same thought as you. But when I got it I learnt it doesn't inflate and press on your sphincter muscle so does nothing for training