Me and my girlfriend recently found out that our sex things match up, yipee! We both love bondage, especially ropes and a bit of spanking/flogging. She's the bottom I'm the top. The one thing missing is that she really enjoys dirty talk but its not something I have ever really gotten into before. Sounds fun but being the top she kind of wants me to lead the dirty talk and I don't know what to say or where to even start. We have spoken about it but she is still fairly vague. Any ideas?