I agree. Definitely has to be just right x
We both love it, it certainly spices things up
I love dirty talking during sex... I love it when things heats up and you just let go and say whatever you want. I don't like a quite partner, make sex boring. I find it sexy when a guy let me know if he is enjoying himself or lets me know explicitly what he would like me to do with him.. Its all fun!
Dirty talk that happens organically in the moment is great. But as a fairly quiet introvert, I can't think of anything worse than someone asking me to talk dirty. It just makes things awkward and forced and I usually would freeze up and say nothing or something weird.
GF likes to hear of my past conquests. Trouble is:
1. I have very few past conquests, so have to go over the same thing again and again.
2. I find it entirely akward to talk about other girls I've been with.
I could probably talk fantasies with her less akwardly, but she doesn't seem to want to hear it!
Practice makes perfect, it's about being comfortable but not too comfortable :)
TheViper wrote:
GF likes to hear of my past conquests. Trouble is:
1. I have very few past conquests, so have to go over the same thing again and again.
2. I find it entirely akward to talk about other girls I've been with.
I could probably talk fantasies with her less akwardly, but she doesn't seem to want to hear it!
Does she only like it if she knows for sure it's true? Or would she be happy with you saying 'I did this/that' etc and it actually being made up but as if it were true. Just to add some variety. If that makes sense x
With my ex...I did not have much if any dirty sex talk....hell...we never had a really dirty type of sex life.... Cince I have been freed of my 20 shackles... This usually reserved lass who doesn't really swear that much....I now find dirty sex talk while having sex a real turn on....especially if you have been living under a sexual bush.... Finding what you say and do seriously turns another on..and they keep coming back..is in itself a turn on.
Let loose and enjoy your naughtier sideππ
I love it ;)
Dirty talk is awesome! Not only does it free someone from their inhibitions but also allows your partner to unabashedly see what kind of kinky side you have...
who knows?! Maybe they might be willing for you to explore them ^^
Noisey sex is the best!!! If that's moaning, screaming or talking dirty I love it ;-) My OH is always more than happy to reciprocate
Ever said something you wish you hadn't?
nope. If you do, a litle quick thinking can always turn it around...
Our sex talk gets crazy filthy sometimes. Mostly centres around me being completely degraded β€οΈ . He has never said anything I haven't liked, although if these things were said in a non sexual situation I would probably be deeply offended by some of the stuff ge says! Lol
The last time I was asked to engage in dirty talk it sounded like an extremely bad porn film and ended in fits of laughter absolutely destroying the mood. Hilarious.
I'm possibly just a touch immature for that, but moans and groans and everything in between is hot enough.
Haha well that's fair enough but it does get repetative!
MissM22 wrote:
Haha well that's fair enough but it does get repetative!
Lol, not sure anyone would every get tired of pretty girl issuing that request x
@Lady any request from a pretty girl should (and would) never be ignored
Nimean wrote:
@Lady any request from a pretty girl should (and would) never be ignored
I agree entirely, granting my lady's requests gets me into all sorts of predicaments though, lol x
Hi, I love talking dirty, I try encourage my partner to do the same, definitely cranks things up a notch.