Do you have any theme when talking dirty, if any? Or do you just say what comes to mind? It is a big turn on for me, I'd love to do some roleplay scenarios when my confidence gets a little better.
We're crap at it. š We did buy the Talk Dirty playing cards for a bit of inspiration and they're fun, but they've not magically made us brilliant at it.
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35693
They're part of the 3 for Ā£15 offer too, so you can pick them up for around Ā£2.50 if you bundle them into a Ā£40 basket and use your Unlimited voucher. š
I think what the trick is lan, is to start out explicit and keep the theme. That is if you are interested in taking it in that direction of course! I like it it being dark (no lights) and laying next to eachother in bed, that way if you do say the wrong thing you can't see the facial reaction and putting you off lol!
We find it hard to take it seriously. We're also rubbish at role-play for much the same reason. I think they both require a level of commitment to the 'scene' that is currently beyond our maturity. š
We love it, when we're texting. We have several themes - faeries in a woodland glade, 18th century man on a blasted heathland, arriving at a country inn and meeting his mistress, Shakespearean characters, to name a few. One if us will text in character, and it will continue.
The beauty of role play in texts is you have a little time to think before answering in character. Great fun, and fun getting more and more explicit in different 'languages'.
Being explicit is the trick.
I am with you Ian, me and Mrs K&C just can't take it seriously enough. It needs a level of commitment that we just can't commit to. I got the fireman outfit from here to surprise her and when I did she laughed at me... It's ok it didn't hurt my feelings as I was busy laughing too. I think I may give those dirty talking cards a go though that will be a night full of laughter.
K&c30's wrote:
I think I may give those dirty talking cards a go though that will be a night full of laughter.
They're quite tame really, but we thought they were fun. They range from things like, 'Run your hands over my body', down at the lower numbers and then go up to things like, 'I'm going to f*ck that gorgeous face of yours' for the higher cards. They're also great if you want to try out accents. š They have a little bit of blurb under the phrase as well giving a task to do connected to what you're meant to be saying, and some extra cards with a couple of game ideas and Dirty Talk top tips.
We also got the Kama Sutra cards that are part of the 3 for Ā£15 deal too. I think a lot of them are more aspirational than inspirational, but I still enjoyed looking through them. š
That sounds amazing Gran! I usually say the very basic dirty talk stuff. I do like role play but haven't been with anyone confident enough to get into it properly, unfortunately.
Iād love to be better at it. We too have got the talk dirty cards. Just never find the time to use all the stuff we ha e lol
As well as the role play (which to be fair, wasn't the topic) we also enjoy straight sexting. In fact, that was what got us together as a couple. We've been friends (after a relationship together 15 years ago) and last Valentine's Day he left s gift on my door. I turned him down then, preferring to just keep our friendship.
Then he went away for two weeks. He sent me messages and photos of his trip every day, then a couple of days before he was due back he sent a message saying "The hot weather is making me horny". Well, I don't know what clicked, but suddenly it seemed like a good idea to get together again.
We spent the next 48 hours getting gradually more steamy, and then really dirty, really explicit, accompanied by some super explicit pics. All this while he's on the train from Scotland. I was really champing at the bit by then, and sent a message asking where he was (thinking he'd still be in the train, but close to home) "I'm at home, on my bed, naked" he said. So I was in the car faster than light, as his house is only three miles away, and astride him, enclosing him, within ten minutes. We haven't looked back :-)
I wrote a story all about our first two weeks. It's very steamy too, but too long to post on here. Plucking up courage to send it to Amazon!
Cb1987 wrote:
Do you have any theme when talking dirty, if any? Or do you just say what comes to mind? It is a big turn on for me, I'd love to do some roleplay scenarios when my confidence gets a little better.
In regular sex, it's mostly about how full my pussy or ass feels, how big he is, how much he is rubbing in good places, how good he feels, how much I love him, that sort of thing. As explcit as possible is normally our strategy. Sometimes we mention sexual events of the past - I've found that is a good way of getting him hard again if he is starting to lose structural integrity. Talk from him is on similar lines. So, to be honest, it is what comes to mind really. We laugh a lot too.
Obviously if we are role-playing, it is more contrived, but we do stay in character throughout. I found this hard at first, but as I've got into the costumes, it has become easier.
You should do nothing to loose - hahahGran wrote:
As well as the role play (which to be fair, wasn't the topic) we also enjoy straight sexting. In fact, that was what got us together as a couple. We've been friends (after a relationship together 15 years ago) and last Valentine's Day he left s gift on my door. I turned him down then, preferring to just keep our friendship.
Then he went away for two weeks. He sent me messages and photos of his trip every day, then a couple of days before he was due back he sent a message saying "The hot weather is making me horny". Well, I don't know what clicked, but suddenly it seemed like a good idea to get together again.
We spent the next 48 hours getting gradually more steamy, and then really dirty, really explicit, accompanied by some super explicit pics. All this while he's on the train from Scotland. I was really champing at the bit by then, and sent a message asking where he was (thinking he'd still be in the train, but close to home) "I'm at home, on my bed, naked" he said. So I was in the car faster than light, as his house is only three miles away, and astride him, enclosing him, within ten minutes. We haven't looked back :-)
I wrote a story all about our first two weeks. It's very steamy too, but too long to post on here. Plucking up courage to send it to Amazon!