whether just for the bedroom or hidden from partners, feel guilty after the cum has gone? I have never had that problem, i just make sure that there is no way my son or daughter are going to walk in, telling them to ring first in case I’m out (see what i did there?
) other than that, pull the curtains, ignore everything else and let it all hang in!
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I wear underwear & stockings all the time. That said i stick with holdup stockings under my clothes for work because i dont want suppender belt straps showing.
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Never wore lingerie - even Mrs. Val’s. Was never my thing and never had any interest. I love a lady in it though! One of my fav’s!
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I wear panties often and very occasionally wear stockings/suspenders . My wife is supportive in that she has bought me most of my current collection, but isn’t a participant in that she isn’t turned on by it. I would really like to add some camisoles and slips to my collection but cannot find any that fit.
As for your original question, I don’t get ‘post cumming guilt’ anymore. However I am super careful to keep it between me and the wife.
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I don’t know if I’d say guilt, but once I’ve came, I take them off, insta tly, like, couldnt lay in bed for 10 mins afterwards wearing it. I cum, they come staright off. Not even intentionally, something subconscious.
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I love to do the same thing in total isolation and privacy… I sometimes feel some guilt but not often. I love using toys and P-Spot masturbation and orgasms as well… I get horny making videos of myself masturbating in my favourite lingerie, using a nice big dildo etc… It’s the anonymity and secrecy that makes me horny too…
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Nothing wrong with that, I love to wear stockings and suspenders whilst pleasuring oneself, enjoy I say 
This is not something that I have ever been interested in until Mrs B and I got together. We do not live together although we spend most of our time together.
After being with her one afternoon and telling her how much it turned me on when I touch her and find out how wet her knickers were, I went home and got a message from her.
It told me to go out to my car and look in the glove box. There I found the damp panties she had been wearing earlier with a message to enjoy, wear and wank but to ensure that I videod it for her. Obviously I followed all of the instructions which was as much a turn on for me as it was for her.
This led to a new episode in our relationship of wearing each others used underwear and other items when the mood takes us.
Is it kinky? Not to us, it’s just something we enjoy 
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I have never worn women’s underwear but have lacy boxers and lace trimmed thong I bought off LH that I sometimes wear. Maybe one day I’ll get to try panties and camisoles
Let’s just say I might, very occasionally, have worn lingerie … and again just once in a while, slipped on a pair of stockings!!
… well ok then, maybe more than very occasionally!! Xx 
R x
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No it’s not kinky. If that’s what you both enjoy that’s all that matters.
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I only started wearing panties for wife or girlfriends maybe 45 years ago . In the early days it was always during sexual play . Years later with girlfriends and later second wife and we would swap underwear when we went out to dinner , a bar or dancing . It helped that I have been wearing thongs and string for years . When I was a body builder and diver I loved the posing trunks and wore micro speedos . After my wife quit sex many years ago I started wearing lingerie during self pleasure sessions . Nothing brings my “sport stick” to full erection than silky material sliding across my nipples , cock and ass . If she were still active and we went out I would love to wear stockings and panties under my normal clothing . Here is one idea photo for just such an outing . https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/lingerie-photo-uploads/257652/755
If you go through my photos you may notice I do enjoy women’s panties and stockings .
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Totally understand that.
My GF got me started doing this right after she took me for my first pedicure for my birthday 3 years back.
She loves it. I love it. It’s liberating to find something new about myself, not have to hide it (from her). Wear it every day in public but no one would ever know because it’s all hidden “underneath.”
Im currently moving into more feminizing “shapewear,” corsets, butt lifting panties, cinchers and bustier type stuff.
And again no one will know since my normal business clothes cover it up. But my GF loves seeing me embrace the secret side of myself I never acknowledged existed.
In short. No. I can’t have people knowing this due to professional reasons. I do feel shame about that.
And on the flip side I take pride in doing it in “secret.” And taking the chance to explore my inner femininity.
The only people who have seen that I wear toenail polish are my GF, her LGBTQ daughter, and her mother (which we explained as “I opened my mouth and said I could wear it for a year and never scuff it like she does the second age pots it on.”)
Her mother kind of thought it was weird at first but has gotten used to it. And I know she’s accidentally seen a gstring strap when I was helping her move but she doesn’t know I wear women’s lingerie daily.
All I can say is it’s a “bonding experience,” for us to have a “private secret,” that only she and I know about in public and actually something I take pride in for exploring my own comfort boundaries both in public and in private.
I was dating my nesting Gf and at her encouragement, dating another really hot more conservative woman who was absolutely opposed to it at first and I felt shamed at her house initially. But she eventually came around to it.
The difference between the “sexual freedom,” At home and “sexual repression,” at the other GFs made me realize how important it was for someone to help me push my boundaries rather than inhibit them.
And made me realize how good it feels to be myself with no shame. And with encouragement. “And not have to feel in the closet,” about it.
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I used to experience the “post nut clarity” and regret it, but as time’s gone on I’ve learned that actually I just enjoy wearing lingerie and it’s not just about the orgasm anymore.
I’ll still happily wear it around the home after an orgasm now
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@Blueballs18 I’ve been wearing lingerie on n off for 40 years and it’s a little bit like that post wank guilty feeling I guess
I had approx 25 years without wearing after getting married
Started again about three years back
Last Saturday I finally asked her if I could try on her panties and she pulled them off and I pulled them on n she wanked me off inside them
The best experience