I don't feel up to it often. And when I do it feels like too much effort. But then I feel good when I am dressed up.
I suppose there's a lesson to be learnt somewhere in there.
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Intersting .
I often think the same thing "Does she like it , or is she just pleasing me "
I try to flip it in my head . Would I enjoy it , if she asked me to dres up as something ( does this happen very often ? ) . I have to be honest and say that I would feel very uncomfortable , and a bit "silly" .......On the other hand tho ;-)
My partner seems to like it because of the reaction she gets out of me, id happily see her with a messy bun and makeup free but you canāt beat a little dress up play.
I think she feels a lot sexier too when sheās dressed up in stockings etc as itās the total opposite of her usual āgirl next doorā look she styles daily. And latex etc always makes her instantly become submissive, so in short I do believe some girls love it, others do it for their partners and some hate it ha. Itās a personal thing like everything else.
Me and my wife both enjoy dressing up as we know how much the other enjoys it . When we have date night we will take it in turns to leave out on the bed what we would like the other one to wear that evening it makes us extremely horny knowing that we are wearing really sexy knickers and stockings or sometimes no underwear under our clothes and no one is aware it is really strange when you go out for a Chinese meal knowing whats going to happen when you are on the way home or when you get home
I love dressing up, one of the only times i feel genuinely sexy. Throw on a nice corset, little knickers and heels....yes please!
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Yes! I do it for him mainly, but also for myself 
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After losing 100 lbs and finally feeling decent in my body, I bought a cute little corset set. Iāve always wanted to wear one or wear just that and a coat out and about to tease him. Iāve been overweight my entire adult life and I want to feel empowered and sexy for him and for myself
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Yepā¦I do.
I do it for meā¦no one else. If I feel sexy and confident then itās greatā¦ because after all the sexiest thing a woman can wear is exactly thatā¦
Confidence
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100% agree @CurvyJilly. So I wear mine as much for me as for him. Another win win.
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Mrs W hereā¦ā¦
Yes, always have enjoyed taking pride in what I wear, even dressed up in exotic underwear when a teen going to the pub or clubs just in case I met somebody who might get to see it ā¦. obviously nowadays for Mr W and for Pen the exotic as sold by LH makes me feel so good and I like to surprise them with what is under the outer covering ā¦ā¦ while choosing what to wear also helps with my horniness ā¦ā¦. gawd, its lovely just thinking about it now even in the office ā¦ā¦ so yes, I love dressing up, love xx
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Yes I always dress to impress my husband. Even when itās just us at home I wear a lace trim nightdress with nothing underneath, knowing full well what that gets me. I ask him to help me pick what to wear out too, in fact, I think heās even got a better sense of what looks good on me than I have!
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I adore lingerie and both my husband and I have a vast amount of lingerie that we use for all times such as daily work lingerie to bdsm lingerie and I buy loads for him for Christmas- just bought this for him - great for pegging https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/lingerie/plus-size-lingerie/bodies-and-teddies/p/cottelli-plus-size-black-lace-crotchless-body/a40977g74682.html
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Same here, my hubby supplies ALL my girdles and stockings and corsets, the stiffer the better he says, i just love wearing what he has laid out for me and thankfully it always stiff corsets or heavy supportive girdles and longline bras.
Congratulations @CherryBomb!
Thatās an amazing accomplishment. Hope you are feeling empowered and confident and beautiful! Enjoy it!
Love to, for myself and him, always have done, Iāve got a ton of lingerie, more stockings and suspenders and basques than I can use really, heās always buying me stuff.
I love dressing up in my lingerie and i have a lot. Bodystockings, corsets basques, teddys, babydolls, chemise now starting to branch out to the more dominatrix style like wetlook, leather strappy outfits some of which are cupless also have some with chains that drape over my bare boobs and over my thighs. My outfits make me feel empowered and sexy and my hubbys face just says it all for me.
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