I think it depends on what you define as “sexy underwear”. Does it make you feel good and confident? Then that’s sexy. Does it make you feel ridiculous? Then it’s probably going to be awkward for both of you.
My husband wears standard boxers and I find them very attractive on him; he has strong, shapely thighs (he plays football) and a medium build and, well, to be honest, he fills them out well if you know what I mean. That’s sexy to me, because he’s comfortable and confident in them.
Where he did take me by surprise was the “sex god” boxers he wore on our wedding night - a pair of black cotton boxers with “sex god” printed on the thigh in red text. It was a call back to a diary post I wrote once, that he read, where I said he is “50% English, 25% Scottish & Welsh, 100% SEX GOD”. He’s never let me forget it
Have a look at the men’s underwear at lovehoney, it’s a good starting point and it will give you some ideas. It’s all about personal choice. Good luck and enjoy.
I bought silky boxers off another site which sounds like emu , as I love the feel of silk. Wife ain’t keen on me wearing her underwear so silk boxers was the closest thing.
Yes. As a gag gift, I once had some custom underwear made for my husband, it had my face with my tongue sticking out and a caption that read “I licked it, so it’s mine”
I have bought underwear that I consider sexy but only because of the fabric. But only certain partners get to see me in them. My go to are boxer briefs.
I do have a couple of pair a friend had made for me with a palm on the backside…she calls them my spanking pants and whenever she spankes me I am required to waer them. She finds them sexy…I find them embarassing.