Do you know when your partner masturbates?

My wife is quite adventurous sexually including being open that she likes to masturbate frequently, usually daily for her, and is not ashamed or shy about this. She knows I love this too and is happy to tell me whenever she has cum on her own and I see her dildo left out now and again.

Do you know when your partner, male or female, masturbates at all?

We are very relaxed about each other’s solo play and talk about it when we have don’t it. We also talk about it when we are planning some me time on occasions when we are apart.

My hubby can't he had a heart problem and is unable to achieve an erecting. I masterbate most days (honestly every day, sometimes more than once) although he know I do I don't think he know how much. I don't want to make him feel bad as we use to have a very active sex life before his illness. I'm not ashamed, just trying to spare his feelings.

We are very relaxed about this sort of thing. I tell him when I have had solo fun when he has been at work or out. He is very happy with that and he even likes to watch me. I get off by clitoral stimulation. I also like him to masturbate when I play in front of him and tease him. Xx💋

Mrs300 knows that I masturbate every morning (when we are not making love) as she is usually next to me in bed - and quite often helps me out!

I'm very blessed.

We both have solo time and we both know, although we don't go into detail. It's often when sex together is less frequent for whatever reason, but we also include it in our time together - increasingly so. I like my toys, OH likes the shower... mostly we like each other. All normal and fun.

Yes. My partner and I often ask each other about when we masturbate - especially when one of us has been home alone. "So how many times did you smash today?" I usually leave my toys on the side to air-dry after cleaning so he knows what I've been using and asks how it was.

He also likes to watch me masturbate and climax before moving on to sex, too.

Fun Louise wrote:

My hubby can't he had a heart problem and is unable to achieve an erecting. I masterbate most days (honestly every day, sometimes more than once) although he know I do I don't think he know how much. I don't want to make him feel bad as we use to have a very active sex life before his illness. I'm not ashamed, just trying to spare his feelings.

My sympathy. I'm in a similar situation. It's been more than half year for me. Hub has medical issues and we don't have sex anymore. So hub encouraged me to masturbate and he knows when I did it.

Yes we are not shy about this and have no kids so we can masturbate when we want without any worry of being walked in on. I've seen him doing in the shower a couple of time but he usually uses his Fleshlight or wanks with a condom on so if either of those are around I know he's be sorting himself out.

I usually do it when he is not around and sometimes my dildo or vibrator is still around after so he knows.

I love hearing about my partner's masturbation sessions, they usually encourage me to have one too. I love it when it does masturbate

My wife and I do it regularly and we both tell each other and talk about how it was. I love hearing how it was for her and what toy she used. We like to watch each other too. I love seeing my wife cum with a toy right before we have sex.

My wife and I do it regularly and we both tell each other and talk about how it was. I love hearing how it was for her and what toy she used. We like to watch each other too. I love seeing my wife cum with a toy right before we have sex.

Not as a general rule. If she is going away for a weekend, she knows that I will sort myself out including using some anal toys, and I have told her a few times when I have used some of my larger toys but thats about it.

I think its one of the things I want to work on in our evolving sex life, getting comfortable with solo play, alone or together

Yes we are both happy with the situation. Sometimes she will call me to tell me what she is doing.

My wife rarely masturbates but when she did and I saw her vibrator I found it a massive turn on. Sometimes I tell her that I'm going for/had a wank but not always

My OH always know when I have. I don’t know how she does and there is no toys left out. She just has this sense 😂😂

My wife loves to know if I've done it and she asks me quite regularly as she doesn't catch me at it, I usually do it when she is out maybe a couple of times a week. She likes to masturbate far more than me and I often hear her in the shower first thing in a morning, I've asked her about it and she confirmed that she is wanking herself in there. She has a couple of toys that seem to move around so I know when she has been using one usually.

4Uonly wrote:

Fun Louise wrote:

My hubby can't he had a heart problem and is unable to achieve an erecting. I masterbate most days (honestly every day, sometimes more than once) although he know I do I don't think he know how much. I don't want to make him feel bad as we use to have a very active sex life before his illness. I'm not ashamed, just trying to spare his feelings.

My sympathy. I'm in a similar situation. It's been more than half year for me. Hub has medical issues and we don't have sex anymore. So hub encouraged me to masturbate and he knows when I did it.

It's nice to hear that you can work around your health issues.

Like many on here, we too both masturbate often on top of our active sex life. I love watching my OH using her wand or any of her toys. We both exchange and quiz each other about if or when or what we've been doing, whilst apart too.

She's just a horny woman!!

We both still live with parents so it's not someting that we really share at the moment. I'm sure he does it and I do also but nothing we have really discussed yet.

Don’t think she knows how much I do but enjoy us both masturbating each other usually in a morning when trying to keep quiet and not awaken the kids like this morning...