Thankyou
. My OH probably gets more flustered when I’m doing manly things
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There is no clear cut answer to your question. Some like to see their partner in lingerie for various reasons. It may be domination, sissification, the naughty taboo aspect, or even the look. Personally, I feel I look hideous in lingerie but do love the “feel” or wearing it. I would never try to entice my partner by wearing lingerie but I would wear it if it’s one of those pleasure myself type days.
I occasionally wear my wife’s panties for sex, which I find horny, and my wife does too, to a certain extent, although it’s impossible to know whether it’s just a case of her responding to me being turned on by it.
One thing I would say is she isn’t so keen on the sight of me in lingerie, which I can understand, but definitely likes the feel of it.
So my main point is: if you don’t think your wife is going to be visually turned on by it (and might actually be turned off), then make it all about the feel or the fun or the kinkiness instead.
And we have the most fun when I put it on and slip into bed without her knowing.
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My OH wasn’t that bothered when I first wore lingerie, but now loves to see me dressed in sexy underwear.
As others have said, when I asked her, she said it’s watching me get so turned on that gets her going 
It’s now almost compulsory that I dress up for our playful encounters 
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So my OH and I were chatting about this and as expected, the appeal is simply in the sheer kinkiness of it and the idea of enjoying something that’s so “outside-the-box” and that she could never openly admit. Yes there’s the physical aspect…how it makes me look which can sometimes be sexy….or just plain funny, which can be equally sexy.
But it’s the classic “If my friends could see me now….” thing by proxy. She says it’s not a secret lesbian thing, wishing I was female or anything like that, and although other women in lingerie do look sexy and stylish to her it’s just not the same as seeing me wearing a bra, knickers and stockings. She can’t quite put her finger on it.
She did add as an afterthought that no matter what, there’s always the power trip of flinging a set of underwear at me and saying “Get that lot on now and prepare to be f***ed like the girl you are” 
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Great post @marbles1 and I think you summed it up perfectly.
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Great post. My favourite bit came at the end, loved that. Would love my wife to do that to me
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Nothing quite like having suspenders snapped against one’s arse while getting a good pegging 
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To be honest, I don’t know since he’s never tried and wouldn’t want to!
Do I find men in women’s lingerie attractive? Not really. But I’m sure there are some exceptions to this. It would really depend on the man rather than what he was wearing. If a man is attractive to me, I will probably be attracted to him regardless of his choice of underwear as long as he was confident and happy. In the same way, I find some women look just as beautiful in boxer shorts as in lacy lingerie.
In general, I am turned on by my husband being turned on so, if wearing lingerie got him excited then it probably would get me excited too if that makes any sense?
Just enjoy wearing whatever you like wearing and have fun with it!
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Are you asking because you want to tell your wife? If so I’d say you just need to tell her at a time you’re both relaxed and in the right frame of mind for a chat.
What other women think about lingerie on men isn’t important, it’s how that works for you and your wife. 100 women might love it, and 100 women dislike it, but you just need 1 women to be in it with you. x
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I have put a similar question up for a response from women, to see how would they reacted to seeing their OH in panties or lingerie. I aint a CD but do enjoy wearing them things, but its very secretive. I have worn them when drunk and walked into the room told me to take them off. It wasn’t long ago that I to sit her down and tell her I had this fetish, because she thought I was having a affair.
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Its not her cup of tea.
If she can see how much it turns me on I think she would be surprised.
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Her silky black knickers
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Uumm, if the lady said it’s ‘not her cup of tea,’ how do you see that surprising her by wearing other items of lingerie will help?
It seems disrespectful of her feelings, which she is entitled to.
Further conversation may lead to her being open to the idea again, but pressuring her is likely to have the opposite effect.
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I wouldn’t wear a bra, it only just be the knickers.
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@Peitho … i have to be dressed sharply in a ( hopefully) well fitted suit on a regular basis.
What is it about this that does it for you ?
My wife likes the top off in jeans slightly open at waist look.
Husband has ordered some sexy underwear for himself. See through mesh and fishnet pants but its for men not women. I wouldnt mind if he wanted to wear womens but it doesnt turn me on or anything like that. Anyway they only stay on for about five minutes 
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