Do you/would you get turned on seeing your man wearing sexy lingerie?

Just wondering, do you/would you get turned on seeing your man wearing sexy lingerie in the same way I get turned on when I see my OH in hers? Or does it actually make you cringe and think no no no? Just curious as to how many women out there actually like it.

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For me, personally, no. It wouldn’t turn me on. It is one of many kinks that some are into (men and women) and some aren’t and both feelings are absolutely fine. I get turned on when my OH is topless in jeans or dressed up smart in a well fitting formal suit (though the latter is an extreme rarity as he hates it and any occasions that call for it! :rofl:)

Frankly though, who cares what anyone else thinks. If you like it, and your partner likes it, that’s fabulous and all that matters. Crack on and have lots of fun.

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For me personally, it’s a no for me too. I’m the same, seeing him in a pair of jeans that sits just right on his bum, either topless or shirt that shows off his arms :ok_hand:
And a suit, now that does get me turned on, all suited and booted wearing my favourite aftershave :drooling_face:

As peitho says if that’s what you and your partner like - enjoy it and have fun with it!!

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Mrs W here … No enjoyment for me if I saw my man in lingerie, thank you. But each to their own…

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Thanks for the reply @Peitho and @Dirty-Wife I’m not sure my wife particularly likes it, I thinks she likes how it turns me on and that’s what turns her on.

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Then that’s all that matters - Congratulations! :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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Nope. Oddly enough clothing on a person doesn’t turn me on.

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For us both it’s a no! We have tried it (cos if you don’t try things how do you know?) and it ended up in hysterics :joy: both of us laughing our asses off made ten times worse by me trying to twerk and what I’m pretty sure was my left testicle popping out and doing its own little dance :man_facepalming:t3::joy:
Having said that who cares what other people think? If you both enjoy and get turned on by it there’s nothing wrong!
Even with our giggling fits we ended up in a great mood and carrying on without the offending item jiggling about :joy:

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same here

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We’ve got some sexy pants for my husband. I love them. He’s pretty big down there, and to see it barely being held back makes me so horny. Especially if I know he’s wearing them under jeans etc. They’re from the LH range. I LOVE it when he wears them in bed.

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@Hornycd
I disagree with many others that I do get turned on when my husband wears lingerie or sexy outfits- I realise it’s not considered normal- but why is lingerie for the female form only

Firstly ask yourself would you prefer your man in boring y fronts or a pair of knickers where you see every bulge in detail - but also men will dress up - why not embrace it - it turns them on and that’s good for all

I do help my husband to buy lingerie as sometimes he can get it wrong - but overall I do find it fun in the bedroom

Finally - men look so good in stockings especially when the leg is shaved :razor:- I dare any woman not to find that good :stockings:

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Well, I’m not a fan of lingerie anyway. I hate lace. Just looks crusty. So I don’t like it on me either…

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Phew, I was beginning to think there was nobody out there​:laughing::laughing:. Not that there needs to be, I just have a feminine side and love wearing nice lingerie, most of the time I’m completely normal​:crazy_face: I am fascinated how people see it though.

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Yes, there’s definitely a thrill wearing something naughty under normal clothes

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For me it definitely depends on the person.

I had a fwb that loved really feminine lingerie, pinks and frills etc, and it just didn’t do anything for me.

My current sexual partner loves black lace and stockings with a suspender belt and it makes my mouth water.

It could be the person or it could be the style/colour/materials. It could be that with the fwb, it was the first time, I think it was more that he’d have suited something less frilly. Hes a big guy with muscles, tattoos and a beard. What did turn me on though, was seeing how turned on he was when he was wearing his lingerie. That confidence was sexy.

Either way, I’m a fan.

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For me personally i dont think the lingerie itself would turn me on, however if it turned him on, seeing him so excited would turn me on if that makes sense,

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Perfect sense, I think that’s where my wife is

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I’ve never really asked the question directly but like others, I’m sure it’s me being turned on by wearing lingerie is what turns my OH on.
I think there’s also the sheer kinkiness of it, and the idea of a woman liking a man wearing lingerie is as unexplainable as a man liking wearing it in the first place. It’s just “how it is”
I just know my OH is sometimes unstoppable when I get stockings and suspenders on.
It can be pure lustful sex, very physical, which doesn’t need explaining, other times it’s just a giggle and she revels in my ridiculousness, playfully humiliating me sometimes.
Both are great in my book, and it’s not just what you wear but the situation and mood at the time.
The flip side is I’ve also had a simple “Oh please, not tonight, I’m just not in the mood” if she doesn’t want to see me in lingerie, and I’m cool with that too.

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Just editing the title so it is in line with the forum rules :slight_smile:

Keep topics open to everyone, without singling out a specific group of members. Topics directed to a limited number of forum members like “ladies, what do you think” are not allowed.

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Understood, thankyou, makes sense, sorry​:smiley:.
You could’ve answered the question while you were here @Lovehoney_Brenna :laughing: but I guess you don’t get involved too much.