Does anybody else have this problem? I love all the textures with my toys, the ribbing and the knobbly bits and big heads and bulging veins but argh the sores they cause they actually give me blisters around and inside the vag and I spend ages in the shower popping them and it is eye watering
I do use lubricant. I have some smoother toys as well, so I alternate between the two but I love the textured ones because they feel so good!! (when they’re being used anyway) Let me know what your thoughts are anyway,
Masturbate a lot, without lube, think 4 or 5 times in a day and then try that again the next day. A guy can rub himself raw and I get that’s not a toy, but his hand, but it’s the principle here.
And some of the toys for women (or men who use them anally) have a lot of ribs, bumps etc on them, some of the “monster” dildos etc.
Honestly, it’s not really a toy here that is the issue. Leaving sex aside and sex toys, have someone begin to rub your earlobe between their two fingers and have that person keep doing it for a while, think 15 minutes straight or longer.
It will become excruciating to you if that’s done non-stop for too long.
So whether it’s our sexual parts or any other parts of our bodies, if things are done too long, too often or too roughly, it can hurt or feel bad. That applies to using sex toys on our bodies, be we male or female.
Do you have a reaction to the materials research which ones actually cause the blisters and see if there’s a correlation. From the way you are describing it to me, makes me think not every toy is causing the issue.
By toys do you mean mainly Dildos? I masturbate once a day, most days, but switch between 3 or 4 different toys and never for excessive amounts of time. If you use a lubricant, maybe it could be an allergic reaction to the toy material or as suggested above the lube itself
Stacy, thanks for your reply, by the way I’m glad there’s another woman on here who is pretty regular, sometimes I think it’s just me so that’s reassuring to know!
I do the same thing rotating my toys as I’ve had this problem for some time, and that’s the way I’ve gone about it to manage it.
I have considered everything, including my hygiene too, but I shower once a day, and clean up after any activities and clean my toys also every time they are used, so I don’t think it’s that. I know for sure the hot weather doesn’t help Though! it gets to be like a rainforest downstairs
My toys that I’m all using are made of silicone, I’ve gone right off plastic after receiving a toy that stunk of paint and was shedding, I’m quite pleased with the quality of the toys I use.
That’s a good point. I think I might have to research a bit more into that. I did wonder about using silicone lubricant instead as they say that’s supposed to be better for more vigourous activity. I’m worried about it staining my bedding though?
X Han
P.S.– brainwave – I use the same lubricant in the botty and don’t have that problem there but I use totally smooth toys there so I don’t think it’s a dodgy reaction to the lubricant so the detective work continues!
I’m very impressed with your imagination! I’d go one better than an earlobe, it’s more like rubbing the skin underneath your eye
You make a good point though, I think I might try changing my technique. See if I can be a bit less heavy-handed with myself. The problem is, when I get in that zone, it’s a bit difficult to think Sensibly, if you know what I mean! I do get carried away.
And of course I do notice a difference between the toys, the ones that are more textured do it a lot more than the ones that are smooth throughout and I think that is why it’s good to have a selection of different toys, and I find the dildos do it a lot less than the vibrators (i’ve got more life like dildos which still have a bit of texture action going on but not as much as those funny looking ones.
I can’t see all of your answer here so I will leave it at that for the moment, but thanks for the effort. I’m very impressed!
Hey, I have wondered that but I Have used the same lubricant my bum and that is fine but I only use smooth toys in that so I think I’m okay with it. I think so anyway…
I’m thinking part the problem is the weather the heat makes it harder on parts of the body, it gets to be like a rainforest
For me, it was reality though and not imagination.
When my daughter was young, she would only suck her left thumb and she wanted to rub our earlobes. It drove my ex-wife nuts as it would hurt in short order.
I’d lay there and let my daughter rub my earlobe with her right hand while she was sucking her thumb. Think 3, 4, 5, 6 years old.
Why did I do that when it hurt?
I knew time would fly and that I’d give anything to go back to that time again and I would in a heartbeat as I’m almost 60 years old now and she is closer to 30 than 25 herself now.
It made my daughter feel good. She was comfortable and trying to fall asleep. There were times when I was sitting on the couch and she’d crawl up on my stomach and chest to do that. She’d put her head down on my upper chest and shoulder area, suck her left thumb and rub my earlobe with her right hand.
There was no way I was going to tell her no…
So that is how or why I brought up having one’s earlobe rubbed over and over for a while…
Back to your comment though. I initially answered like I did to you and another in the thread due to what you said in another thread a bit before making this thread.
You said:
Reading what you said in that comment is why I replied about doing things too long, too often or too roughly.
they actually give me blisters around and inside the vag and I spend ages in the shower popping them and it is eye watering 
