Does size matter??

We all knows it's an age old question but what does everyone think??

Much prefer girth to length but I'm v much a believer in "it's not the size it's what you do with it" cliché.

The biggest guy I've ever been with was actually one of the worst sexual partners I've had. No technique and evidently got by on size alone, he thought he was gods gift in bed but was bloody awful.

No. It's the way that you use it, is what's counts. Just ask my Mrs !

I am just of an average size .

Usedworkshoes wrote:

Much prefer girth to length but I'm v much a believer in "it's not the size it's what you do with it" cliché.

The biggest guy I've ever been with was actually one of the worst sexual partners I've had. No technique and evidently got by on size alone, he thought he was gods gift in bed but was bloody awful.

I agree with Usedworkshoes... definitely not the size that counts but all about how you use it :) Same thing actually with the biggeat guy I've had, he had no technique and thought he was gods gift...

If a guy knows what he is doing then OOOOOOOOH size doesn't matter at all, I have been with different sized guys and average are the best as the guys with bigger ones did nowt for me x

Also same experience as Usedworkshoes!

Not to say bigger men (girth or length) can't be good lovers, many are I'm sure, but the best are men who actually take the time to understand a woman's pleasure, not how to get cast in a porno.

I have to agree with everyone here. As long as you know what you're doing with it then size really doesn't matter.

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I happen to disagree. And by that I do not mean the bigger the better, quite the contrary, I just think neither too small nor too big is irrelevant. I think the basis of sexual compatibility starts with the couple being ok with each other size wise. Mind you, ladies' "size" matters too in this regard. So whichever too people are together, they must match the way I see it for sexual gratification to occur. So yes, size does matter, just not in the way people throw around this question. :)

Stuburns wrote:

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Yes, I would basically agree with this, and I have reminded new members before to do so myself, but I've fully given up now on using the search bar on the Forums. It is completely nonsense the way results come up, it's time consuming and completely illogical and you might very well still never find what you're looking for even if you know for sure it's there. So I don't remind anyone of this rule anymore... I just ignore threads that come up way too often on the same topic if I don't feel like repeating myself.

I read somewhere that depending on the sizing of the different ethnic groups, smaller penises are designed for smaller vaginas and bigger penises for bigger vaginas. So I guess it just boils down to preference. I couldn't imagine being with anyone with a bigger than average sized penis (average I'd say 5.5 inches) only because I feel so tight on entry. And as previous posters have said, it's what you do with it that counts.

I agree with people saying that what counts is what you do with it, but it still depends. It doesn't count that much if you have a really small penis in my opinion

only had one partner, I'd say like 95% it doesn't matter. I think it'd only matter if they were so big to the point of it being painful :/

I agree with everyone saying its technique, not size, that's important.

Having seen some porn, its clear that guys with huge ones actually don't get to use them(like "normal" guys) as they're too long to enter fully, so in that respect I'm glad Im normal, though wish it was thicker?

I agree that too long can be painful. To me it's more about girth

Hmm. My Mr is off average size and he does a great job and makes me feel fantastic. I have realistic dildos that are much bigger but don't feel half as good. Definitely how you use it for me x

Thank you to everyone who says it's how you use it! You know how to make a guy happy!

Definitely the skill one has not the size..... long length can be uncomfortable again probably with a gentle lover it would be manageable

YES, it matters to the extent that the two people make "it" work with their bodies. Lack of confidence and creativity is a bigger issue than lack of size in my book though.