Looking for some help here if possible. When my wife and I are having sex I can usually last a pretty good while unless we are in doggy style. For whatever reason I tend to bust my but so much faster and can’t seem to control it. Any tips?
We all have those positions that just ‘get’ us and we don’t last long in. Mine is also doggy. Something about seeing the ass in all its glory.
I can’t offer much other than the classic ways to delay the inevitable. For me that’s changing positions, or stopping stimulation on you for a bit (eg go down on her). I don’t like the tactic of thinking about something else because I like to live in that moment.
Of course you can knock one out before sex, but to me that’s just not worth it as it’s just not as enjoyable then.
Maybe try a cock ring, which might help.
Doggy is just awesome.
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You are absolutely right! Seeing the ass in the air and being able to see the curves in her waist etc is def all the glory for sure!
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Waste is an unfortunate spelling error given the context 
(Sorry, I had to)
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Doggy always used to do it for me too. I could never hold back for long. That’s why I always made sure that she was fully satisfied before we switched to doggy.
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Hubby and I love doggy too (an aside, I did a doggy-style sex position review on my blog about two weeks ago which I’ve had plenty of… ahem, “positive feedback” for 
), I think it’s just one of those things for a lot of guys: sex + butt = rapid round. If we encorporate a butt plug as well, well then the “show” is usually over by the time the adverts are 
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Now I know I’m not unusual. I cum quicker during doggy too. I pull out, calm down and go back in. It’s almost like edging!!
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I am the same, if i feel im going to cum either go slower, or pull out and spend some time eating both holes before you go back 
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Taking the control of the motion usually helps, also if your partner opens her legs a bit further while in doggystyle it shouldn’t feel as tight and may help you last a little longer … failing that I would look to use condoms of numbing lube 
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How about you just stand / kñeel and let your wife control the trusting. I can last longer but if im driving then its not longer before the inevitable happens 
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Same. Stay perfectly still and think of Britain works best. If I move it adds to the other stimulation
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We never heard of round a nd round. Gotta give it a try
When I pull out I usually go down on her puss for a little bit. I’ve made her cum in between. But GoGitl12 gave us another idea as well.
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Your first sentence said it all! Seeing her butt and her butt hole is so hot! Then to make it worse for me, I can’t help touching it. I rub her butt hole with my finger and sometimes insert it a little. Since I only use saliva, I don’t try going in far. But that probably causes me to cum sooner.
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Im the same with my girlfriend as doggy tips me over the edge very quickly regardless if its me driving the agenda or her pushing back.
The view of her ass in the air and her hair draped over to one side exposing her back is just too much
When I try to stop or slow down she carries on with the motion and teases me knowing ill explode
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I like to finger her butt hole during doggy. But that only makes me hornier and I cum too soon. Or, we think that makes me have more cum.
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Yeah I agree with you there!!!
the ass in the air is def what sets me off!
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She will lay on her belly and we’ll do pic from the rear. I love the feeling of her bottom against my belly when I cum!
My advice is to make sure she cums before you do doggy if you think you’ll be too quick. Last time I did doggy I came in about 5 seconds and my girlfriend actually said “That was quick!” There was no awkwardness as I had already been down on her multiple times before then. I think missionary is the best position when I want to last longer, but doggy definitely gets me off faster, there’s something animalistic about it, and the feeling of being in complete control, grabbing her hips etc…
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