Wondering if anyone else is the same as me and if anyone has ever successfully overcome it?
Once I have cum I become too sensitive to touch any more, cannot cum again for a long time and lose any interest at all in sex.
My husband is pretty used to this now and we try to prolong things with a lot of edging/make sure he cums first (otherwise he might not get chance), but it would be nice to be able to go again.
We have experimented occasionally with forced orgasm & I can cum again in that situation, but I have to be tied up unable to move otherwise I would fight against it. It’s also often more (good) torture than pleasure.
So, am I alone? And is there a way to get past this problem?
Nope, I’m the same. Actually the joke in this house is I put my heart and soul into the first one, there’s simply nothing left for the others 
I have a love-hate relationship with forced orgasms too. I mean, it seems like an odd thing to hate, right?!
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Right!
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Same in our household sometimes as wife gets very sensitive, so we agree to have a break and have round 2 after an hour or so…
After 2 or 3 clitoral orgasms during oral, shes too sensitive so thats when i switch to penetration.
I can get a few clitoral orgasms in one session, I don’t know how far I could go before I get too sensitive to stop. After those few, I’m ready to have him 
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I can keep going, I have orgasms pretty early, it would be really shite if that was the end of it 
he’d be raging. Orgasms just make me hornier, certainly not the end of sex for me, thankfully.
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Though it’s not spoken about as regularly, women have refractory periods just like men do. Some women have short ones and are ready for more after moments, others are so sensitive you must stay away from the clit after. You’re totally within the realm of “normal” and that’s okay.
My wife much prefers to be one and done: she can keep playing and go for multiples, but the return on effort is not regularly worth it. Even when she’s well primed from a good session, the second one feels like fighting against some discomfort and hypersensitivity and then the release ends up being not as good anyway.
We’ve developed our most recent rhythm when we have an extended play time together is to really build up that first orgasm - usually with multiple edgings, lots of oral before adding toys and then anal/DP has become a go-to for the grand finale. Then hours later at bedtime we go again and by then she’s been simmering all day waiting for the next orgasm and her clit is ready for more.
Sounds like just a longer break to allow your clit to come down is all that’s needed.
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Wifes the same
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My wife is the same. After a clitoral orgasm she is one and done there. However penetration is still fine.
She’s so sensitive afterwards even a dabble I’m forced orgasm play is way too much and provides literally no pleasure.
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My wife normally needs a rest from clit work after an orgasm, but that’s when I tickle her G-Spot and get her gushing. Once that’s done she’ll need a moment to catch her breath. She’s then very sensitive and can sometimes start again, or has to stop. I’ve managed to make her orgasm again by just lightly blowing on her clit while my fingers played with her nipples. That was impressive.
Edit: but in answer to the OP question, no I don’t think it’s unusual! An ex wouldn’t want me near her for days after an orgasm and would struggle to even wear underwear because the material rubbing could set her off.
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After I cum, the head of my penis is very sensitive. With OH her vagina is pretty sensitive IF she’s cum. Otherwise I can go at it again. I’ve seen her cover her vagina with her hand to keep me from touching it! LOL
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I used to be. I prefer clitoral stim and once im spent that would have been me. I got an entry level clitoral suction toy (the LH x Romp) to test out before spending the ÂŁ on a womanizer. Now with careful speed manipulations i can go a couple times with or without husband.
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That’s interesting to know - we’ve just bought one of those, but totm has meant we haven’t had chance to try it yet.
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Same with my gf as after intense foreplay session and licking her clit all i did was start to edge a finger into her pussy and she said she was going to cum
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Mrs is the same maybe even more sensitive once she has cum. We have to spend time playing and I edge her a lot which she really likes. Once she has her orgasm she finds it all too much! She can go from it feels amazing to this hurts and I can’t penetrate or touch her down below. If I have not finished we have to opt for alternative endings for me.
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