Don't like cum in my mouth

As a man I can fully understand women not liking it, some do so don't to be honest if someone doesn't like it or is not in the mood there are plenty other exciting ways to finish the job so to speak ![](upload://h7LJ67OOrR57VDYrj5ZEwwHAfLG.gif)

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I have to have it aimed at the back of my throat to swallow, the texture/taste ewwww!!
I much prefer him to come on my face/boobs x

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I think cumin is an acquired taste.

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Also I've come across somthing called "Masque Sexual Flavor Strips" which as it surgest Is supposed to masque the flavour of cum, my OH has baught some so will report back on results

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My advice try the numbing mint spray. And as he's coming position it at the back of the tounge so it goes straight to the back of the throat avoiding most of the taste buds and swallow quickly. That's the best I can do. Works for me but I still avoid it tactically by telling him it gets me hot when he blows all over me.

Not much but I hope it helps a little.

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Just say you want to be his porn star and have it all over you. Men are visual creatures so I can't imagine any complaints. If there are, ask him to swallow it and see how long that lasts!

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Diet does count. I almost never used to go down on my partners, until my husband took away some traumas I had. And when I first let him come in my mouth, I discovered he did not have such a bad taste. He never smoked, drinks plenty of coffee, drinks alcohol only occasionally, usually drinks plenty of water, eats almost anything (but has a very healthy diet with little to no red meat and lots of vegetables), but most of all, used to have a bowl of fresh pineapple every weekday for dessert after his work lunches. We do not have proof of course, but I think fresh pineapple (I don't think boxed juices or cans would do it) and plenty of water helps with the taste. Then again, I imagine not everyone can taste good, for any given reason.

I don't like the temperature, but there's not really much to do about that. Have some cold water ready and wash it down.

The speed is also something that can vary from one man to another, and there are some good tips about this above, such as aiming at your cheeks or under the tongue.

However, having him let you know when he is about to come is a sign of decency that will prepare you for it. My husband knows I have issues (born prior to him) with it, so if we do it all the way, 1) it's only when I want it to so I'm psychologically prepared to swallow, 2) he always signals he's about to come and I can still opt out. I consider spitting unladylike, but I did it nonetheless a couple of times. As mysteron said, way better than vomiting!

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I cant stand cum. The texture, the taste, oh god. I do swallow, as for me the thought of spitting it out and having it linger in my mouth makes me heave, and have always always swallowed. My OH is quite decent and have actually never thought about it until reading this thread, he always gives me the option to where I want his cum, he has never cum in my mouth without my permission.

I can't think about what I have in my mouth when he cums. I honestly just stop thinking about everything to take my mind off what I'm actually doing otherwise I heave.

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Double post sorry!

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I find the quicker I swallow it the easier it is so just finish the job and then swallow and you hardly notice.

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I like cum, mens anyway, not so keen on womens

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I have been in a D/s relationship with my fiance for 6 years. We were best friends for 10 years prior to that and we talked about everything. Neither of us held back. And conversations got pretty disgusting at times. We know once another as intimately as can be imagined. One of the things I use to do was just mention a guy finishing in a girl’s mouth and she would immediately gag and wretch every time. It was uncomfortable. Now during my life I have been married twice before. One of which was 22 years. My fiance rented a room from us for the last half of that marriage. My wife at the time wanted me to go down on her, and make her orgasm but hated to recriprocate. She couldn’t even stand precum getting on her tongue. I had only had 1 girlfriend be able to make me climax while sucking me and my first wife was able to make it once. When the woman your with have made it clear how disgusting it is to them it can cause the guy to not be able to climax that way. I had women go down on me for the longest was 3 hours. When she finished her lips were swollen and discolored. In the 6 years of being in a power exchange relationship were I am in control she make the rules and she is punished for disobeying or not following them that has changed. I told her I’m the very beginning that she was going to overcome her aversion to me climaxing in her mouth. And it was actually easy. She was in her mid 40’s when we got together she there was a possibility she could get pregnant. So we avoided finishing inside her. We just accepted the risk with the possibility that came with pulling out. I have always been able to control me climax, that drives her insane since she can’t and she isn’t allowed to orgasm without permission. Anyway, in the lady 6 years we have sex 4-6 times a week, and she sucks me off another 4-6 times a week. Sex lasts 3-12 hours and I have finished in her vaginally 1 time, I have finished in her analy 1 time. Other than that every other time I have finished in her mouth. I get her extremely excited, lots of foreplay, lots of sensation play using feathers, hand a whertonberg wheel (a spiked wheel used to mark spacing for stitching or leather lacing as it punches a small hole evenly spaced as the wheel spins around), I also use whips and flogs, paddles, riding crops etc. to get her blood pumping and to come to the surface. This makes her nerves much more sensitive to my touch. I will then edge her endlessly while denying her an orgasm. Sometimes I will completely deny her an orgasm after edging her for several hours periodically giving her breaks to come back down, only to take her back up a few minutes later. By the time I’m done stimulating her I can command her to orgasm from another room and cause her legs to buckle and her to have an earth shattering orgasm. She also squirts so there is no faking an orgasm, either faking having one or faking not. Edging her like this has also caused her to orgasm from my using her mouth and throat as if it were her vagina. There was a rule added a year or so ago that she could orgasm freely while I am using her mouth and throat. Between making it such a frequent occurrence, linking it to her being able to orgasm freely and linking it to one of the most important things in her life, being considered a good girl who obeys her Master and pleases him even though she may not like what she has to do provides her the added motivation she needs. Also she has commented multiple times that when am as deep as I can go when I climax she tastes absolutely nothing. She eagerly sucks me off and even gets this shit eating grin when I tell her to knowing that she can orgasm freely if I take control from her and it goes from her sucking me off to me fucking her mouth and throat. Which she really likes, to her it’s the most submissive thing she can do. It’s not belittling to her as she has heard other women say. Instead it’s surrendering herself, trusting me and the thing that brings her your most joy in life making her Master happy and providing him pleasure. She still gags when I talk about it. But I have cum in her mouth hundreds of times over the last 6 years and she has never gagged, wretched or vomited from it. It has turned her on intensely and caused her to have some seriously intense orgasms. And she me climaxing while fucking her mouth and throat is absolutely by far the most intensely I have every climaxed. And it seems it gets more and more intense each time. It is mind blowing! I tell her all the time that there is no one who has ever existed or ever will exists who is as lucky as I am. Let be explain it this way. Her engagement ring was a antique 1ct earth grown diamond solitaire. About 3 months later that didn’t say what I wanted it to. So I found a really good deal and bought her a second engagement ring. This one has 8 small earth grown diamonds going down each side of the ring with a center 3.2ct round cut earth grown diamond and a total weight of 4.75ct. And it took me almost a month to design and build a custom lighted mahogany presentation box with a custom sigil (a magical symbol) that I created to represent us when we first got together burnt into the top as well as a few more symbols that carry meaning fire us. And I’m learning the electric guitar and taking singing and dance lessons with her so I can play our song at our wedding and sing it to her and so our first dance will be meaningful and we won’t look like total fools. She doesn’t know about the guitar and singing lessons. She is the most amazing woman I have ever met. And she deserves much more. I shared this to hopefully help those that are having problems in this area. I know I held a lot of resentment towards the women I was with that always wanted me to go down on them and where more than happy to get me to remain there for an extended period for them to orgasm and after they orgasmed but were all to eager to be done with it when it came to me and wouldn’t put in any real effort. I always considered them as being the reason I had such a hard time climaxing from oral. They always pushed how much they hated it, to the point that there was just no way to enjoy it when she would do it. I am off the opinion now that if your not going to put in 110% then just stay away from my junk I have no need for a woman like that. A lot of women will find that oral can be extremely enjoyable if they will make the effort to get over it at least psst their aversion to it. And hopefully the ones that make the effort will have a man at home that will properly reward them for their efforts and show her just how much he appreciates her efforts.

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No amount of bribery will ever get me to let a man cum in my mouth. I give him bjs and he warns me when and i move out the way. He loves them.

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@Wood-Nymph Has there been any oops moments as accidents can easily happen, speaking with experience of accidently cuming too soon. Or have you been lucky.

If someone is wanting to take a load in their mouth but can’t because of the texture all I can say is practice with the guy cuming in your hand, and take bit by bit until you are happy to try a load in your mouth.

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He does produce a lot of precum and that can be an issue so i use flavoured lube to disguise the taste but if there is just too much i have to spit quick before i am sick. Never had an oops moment always managed to dodge it although once it was headed straight for my eyes but i was quick to get out of the way. I have told him if it ends up in my mouth it is going straight into his (he is not a fan of eating his own cum) i believe its the meds he is on that has changed the way he tastes as he never tasted so salty before (like you took a teaspoon of salt in your mouth).

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If you dont like it @Stars21 then really you dont have to do it, there are plenty of other ways and to be honest, it doesnt really bother Mr LM if I dont let him finish orally, I just let him spray away anywhere else :sweat_droplets:
If you decide to though, you could always ask if he wanted to then swap, as if he doesnt feel happy to, then why should you ?.. :woman_shrugging:t2:

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My friend said the same about her husband he was on medication…had diabetes and then was sterilised. It made her gag too and she said it was really salty…she had always done it before and was also giving blow jobs to completion to other guys with no issues.

She said it started with the diabetes and then when the medication and being sterilised were added in she said she just couldn’t stand it anymore.

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Exactly, they used to say give salty water to make someone sick if they had eaten something they shouldnt have, we!l its like so much more than that.

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Being on certain medication can be a negative impact on the taste​:pensive_face:

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Yes hubby is diabetic and on meds and i believe its those that have made the difference, we have tried the pineapple and various other things and they have no effect.

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