Don't understand

My wife is still away. I don't get it have been sending texts and signs for fun I've last year. I just get Xxx in return says its work and that's it. We have toys and she loves it but never to start it. I can't do anymore around house but am getting the feeling I'm not sexy. I think I'm reading too much into it. I have told her so many times but I don't think it gets through. I just need give the this. Thanks