Hi. I'm wanting to have a go at having my husbands penis in my vagina and a toy in my anus, probably a small dildo or but plug, something that can be moved in and out at the same time as the penis. Any advice on starter toys for this purpose and any tips on doing it comfortably and safely. Thanks :)
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We use a medium vibrating plug for this.
In the doggy position the plug gets pushed in and out by the normal thrusting motions. On our plug it also scrolls through the vibration speeds and patterns. That's interesting too.
Don't go too big with the plug or dildo at first. The presence of the plug in your anus will make your vaginal passage tighter and, depending on your partner's penis size, it could be uncomfortable.
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My wife and I have used a long doublesided dildo to do this. A modified "Scissor" position worked best as I was able to insert myself into her vaginally while we both used the double sider on our back sides. Lots of lubrication and clitoral stimulation were required to keep her relaxed enough to fill both holes. As always with anal, slow and steady.
Rebekah29 wrote:
Wow those first ones are quite something. My hubby is a little reserved so I'm not sure he'd go for those but a girl can hope. The last one looks great. Thanks xMs. D wrote:
My wife and I have used a long doublesided dildo to do this. A modified "Scissor" position worked best as I was able to insert myself into her vaginally while we both used the double sider on our back sides. Lots of lubrication and clitoral stimulation were required to keep her relaxed enough to fill both holes. As always with anal, slow and steady.
Wow those first ones are quite something. My hubby is a little reserved so I'm not sure he'd go for those but a girl can hope. The last one looks great. Thanks x Sorry replied to the wrong one. Thank you for your advice though. And as a bisexual woman I'll always keep double ended dildos in mind xMs. D wrote:
My wife and I have used a long doublesided dildo to do this. A modified "Scissor" position worked best as I was able to insert myself into her vaginally while we both used the double sider on our back sides. Lots of lubrication and clitoral stimulation were required to keep her relaxed enough to fill both holes. As always with anal, slow and steady.
Wow. The double penetration things look amazing. Not sure hubby would be game for one of those but a girl can hope. The last one looks great too. Thanks :)Alicia4Ever wrote:
There is this type which fist over his penis,
or someting like this that he can push in and out, https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30941
This one is totally amazing then strong curve in it lends it well to what you are wanting to do.
Or if you fancy a bit of vibration at the samer time, https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37736
I have all 3 and they should work fine from doggy position. There is one position I know that I call lazy doggy ( I don't think that's it's proper name) He lays on his back with his feet pulled up near to his bum so that his knees are up, with his legs spread. She kneels between his feet with her bum facing him. Then she backs up onto his penis letting her feet go under his knees on the outside. He is then able to penetrate her anally with any toy. She can rock back and forth to get vaginal thrusting going at the same time, either in time to the anal or in opposition timing.
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Reverse cowgirl with you on top and riding him. If you lean forward he can slip the dildo up your butt. My gf has had anal from me so we chose a dildo to match my cock. She loved it with me and the 8 inch LH cock thrusting alternatively in her
We’ve had good results with butt plugs ok there is no thrusting with a butt plug but the feeling of being filled in both holes does it for me wife.
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As has been posted earlier, make sure the butt plug isn't too big. She uses the Roll Play medium plug, which has a jiggle ball in it and a flat base. We also have the large plug which she uses sometimes for other types of play but it makes her pussy too tight. She likes to go doggy, for both of us her pussy becomes wonderfully snug. The flat base of the plug means it doesn't dig into my fat belly!
For comfort: I‘d say go for silicone or another flexible material to start. Glass & metal are far less forgiving.
As mentioned, large toys will restrict the vagina. A couple of inches inside the butt, and a couple of inches inside the vagina, the two paths cross, and if one is full, the other will be tighter.
Beads work well for starting out with DP, in my view, because they have gaps you can use as 'passing places‘ :D
You might enjoy something like: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32085
We used a slimline dildo but make sure hes got a good hold of it. I find it easier the other way around and take my partner behind, they way I relax more that nothing is going to go missing.
We started this really slowly and used the LH basics anal prober. Doggy or reverse cowgirl worked best. If using the bulbous end of the toy I’d just kind of tug on the beaded end rather than actually thrust it in and out so maybe not th DP feeling your looking for but the toy is a non intimidating introduction to anal play.
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lube lots of lube lots of foreplay and if she has done some anal play it will be comftable …id suggest toy in the vagina penis in her bum to begin …let her control the toy and you go slow in her bum try to be opposite rythmn on the insertion and withdraw to the toy
Lube, soft dildo that’s small to average to start with and even try butt plug first
We bought this toy for dipping into dp and it was worth every penny! Plenty lube and enjoy 