Hi everyone, I hope everyone have a nice 2024, i’m new into this, I feel weird, but I have to learn this.
Here is my problem, i have a 7.3 inches d*ck that is downward bented… For reference you can imagine a regular banana, and well, I had some sex acts with my girlfriend, I’ve been experimenting, like moving more, change the rythm, going deeper, moving in circles, Yes, we had a nice time, however, there are these complications:
I guess I lost part of my sensibility and well, I had read that is because bad habits, like a lot of masturbation, stress, poor exercise, etc.
Based on (1) has been hard to me to feel as i think should feel… when i cum, i just cum some drops and i know that’s not okay…
Again, based on 1, we tried to find some sex possitions, believe me or not, the one We are using is the regular missionary, and it “works” for me, however, she has to move and adjust a little to make it comfortable to me, it works, however, I’m starting to think that using the same position could lead to boreness. In doggy style i don’t feel a lot, probably because lost of sensibility. We use sometimes a possition is hard to explain, but , basically she rises her legs to a 90° position, then put some pillows in her pelvis, i take her legs, put in my shoulders and i get in. This position results nice, however, she yells a little and I’m not so sure if she’s enjoying it or hurts to her.
So well, that’s the reason i came here looking for serious advice since this issue requires to get attended asap to me, so, in synthesis:
Can you please advice me SPECIFIC positions (if you can include a picture of it) to my problem.
Can you please recommend me effective ways to recover my penis sensibility?
I would really appreciate if someone replies to me and give me the directions. Thank you!
2 things…
1 - do you mean sensitivity?
2 - If you don’t know if she likes it at the 90° or if it hurts, you really need to ask her. You should be asking her at the time if she likes it.
I think @JoCat is right, communication is very important as whats right for one may be is not for another.
Have you tried /thought about reverse cowgirl? . Talk with your partner and experiment.
When you say downward bent were you born like this or has the erect shape of your penis changed from the upwards banana? If it has changed you should see a doctor to see if you need corrective surgery to make it more comfortable for you.
With regards to the bent penis - see a doctor as I believe there are various chambers in the shaft and these fill with blood as you become hard - but if s chamber becomes damaged or twisted it will not fill / thus causes the penis to bend and not function correctly
Hmm if your looking to recover your sensitivity then I’d probably recommend abstaining from masturbation and porn for a while to see if it improves anything
I’m not so sure, i don’t remember that clear, but i remember that when i was a teenager I noticed it. And no, is not upward banana, is downward, the head faces down, not sure how much degrees but it seems as a banana. And well, Is a nice advice, but i would like to solve the problem without surgery, taking a medication or other things… Thank you for replying.
Yeah, we do that, however is a little difficult to me because she ask me if i’m good and that made me nervous and probably loosing the erection. Is something i have to work first, I’m suffering some anxiety and This next week I’m going to look professional treatment to manage those, i just want things run perfect. Thanks for your time!
Very good and yes in a sense too much porn can contribute to loss of mental stimulation which helps to make the most of sensitivity during sex. I’ve known guys who’ve been all in the moment and then all a sudden hit a dead end if there’s no porn on to watch…
