I recently purchased a vibrating butt plug from here and have used it a couple of times. I warmed myself up slowly, used lots of lube and followed all advice.
Now, it felt nice in there and it didn’t hurt going in either. As I was masturbating, I was having good feelings in my butt and penis. The approach to orgasm felt great but when I came I hardly felt anything. Am I doing something wrong? It was very much an anticlimax!
This happened both times.
Personally my orgasm is more intense when being stimulated on both sides. It hard to say if you are doing something wrong but I doubt it because as you said it feels good.
Everyone’s body is different so it may be that it just ain’t for you but doing any experiment twice is never enough to come to a conclusion. Maybe try it out a few more time to make sure.
Sounds unusual. I think most people will report that p-spot combined with regular orgasm is really intense.
Just trying to think of the practical situation. You have nerves that are close to the surface of the perineum which can be numbed by cycling, sitting and I’m wondering if the t-bar of a butt plug could do it if there was too much prolonged pressure? Or intense vibration can numb nerves?
Perhaps try the plug on its lowest setting? I find prostate stimulation requires the very slightest of touch ( other people need the opposite but its a soft, easy to damage gland and there’s a lot of nerves back there that are important )
I’m not a penis owner so please forgive me if I’m way of the mark here! I’m just wondering if you were feeling slightly on edge mentally or were you completely relaxed? If you were feeling at all anxious or not as relaxed as usual (lots of people, me included, would be a little anxious the first couple of times doing any anal play) then your orgasm might have been dulled for this reason.
Thanks for the advice. More attempts might be needed.
A good thought, thank you. I can try that too. It’s strange as it was feeling great right up to the point of ejaculations.
That might be true as well. I’ll have to see if I can ensure I’m more relaxed. Thank you.
I’m wondering if the inclusion of the butt plug diffused your orgasm, so instead of the usual intense penile driven event it was more spread out throughout your entire pelvic floor ? That was my experience the first time I combined the two. Though my orgasm was very intense, it was a more full body one than I would usually experience with penile only stimulation.