For a while now I have been practising edging, ie stimulating myself but stopping just short of the point of no return when ejaculation is inevitable. Doing this repeatedly and over several sessions, with a couple of “accidents” along the way, I have managed on a couple of occasions to experience an extended mild orgasm for a couple of minutes without actually ejaculating. I surprised myself actually when I found it was possible. I just wondered whether women are able to do this too, approach an orgasm but kind of just hold back and roll along on the crest of that wave that comes just before orgasm. If I had a partner I would ask her but unfortunately I don’t so I hope you all don’t mind me putting the question out there.
Hi! I find it quite hard to edge but yeah it is definitely possible. I do it by clitoral stimulation, almost to the point of coming, then again and again. I experience almost orgasms where i dont get the body trembling and almighty release but it feels incredible. It then ends up with the most amazing mindblowing orgasm at the end of it too, so the frustration is causes is worth it.
Innocentredhead91 wrote:
Hi! I find it quite hard to edge but yeah it is definitely possible. I do it by clitoral stimulation, almost to the point of coming, then again and again. I experience almost orgasms where i dont get the body trembling and almighty release but it feels incredible. It then ends up with the most amazing mindblowing orgasm at the end of it too, so the frustration is causes is worth it.
Hey, I have to agree with this. I'm exactly the same! I can bring myself to the edge with fingers best, and then again, and possibly once more.
I think I need a little more practice at doing this with toys to get the same desired effect, but am willing to persevere!
Otherwise, I can do up to three 'full' orgasms in a row using fingers, when I'm really turned on. It's possible for me to do two full ones in a row, with a toy.
I'm hoping to look for an orgasm enhancer (in pill form) that will be suitable for me. May try 'Pink Venus' again (available on Lovehoney).
This will increase arousal and help me orgasm quicker (and more powerfully) and also stimulates to help with edging. I find it's easier with an enhancer to reach 'just before the point of no return!'
But, yes, It is possible for a woman to edge, and of course we don't mind you asking '10spdee'. Here to help! 😉 x
Women can definitely be on the receiving end of edging. My husband likes getting me right on the edge and holding me there as long as he can. It is very frustrating at the time, but the orgasm is normally massive at the end. It is not something we do a lot, but it has been known!
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Definitely possible! It can be fun but I find too much of it gives me stomach cramps because my body has been tensing without releasing and it upsets me after four or five times.
The easiest way to edge is through clitoral stimulation and a strong vibrator or by stimulating the g-spot until you get the “I need to wee” sensation, pulling back & repeating until you can’t take anymore. Can be done alone or with a partner in control. I find that it’s more comfortable to edge during anal play though as this area is not as sensitive for me and can take more teasing.
I love being edged occasionally. Mr Scorpius lets me almost come, and then he makes me remove my wand for x amount of seconds before allowing me to try again. It drives me crazy, but I come so hard when I am allowed too - it is definitely worth the torture - lol 
I think I'm a born edger! I hardly ever orgasm, but have great sex just riding that wave higher and higher.
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Definitely! I find edging to be pretty fun and if I have enough time to myself will include it in solo play. It's a lot more prominent in play with my partner because I find it takes me a while to climax with others but oh boy do I edge the whoooole time. It usually results in a pretty intense orgasm so I'm not gonna complain.
I like to take Mrs secret to the edge during submission play and she tends to get in a euphoric state where her toes curl and she shakes a little, it seems more frustrating for females though and can get painful due to the tensing so I don’t leave her waiting too long. Usually one or two build ups and then give her the full fireworks. I find it extremely sexy from a power play perspective and my partner loves the huge orgasm at the end, she said her brain goes into a mode where all she can think about is climaxing and she gets quite sexually aggressive during play when I’m edging her.
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Definitely possible normally on my terms with toys once in heat of the moment much harder norm a position change helps
A resounding YES! seems to be the answer then. I’m glad to hear it. Many thanks to you all for being so kind and open with your replies. That’s one question I can tick off my list. As for the edging itself, it certainly takes patience and the self discipline to not get carried away in the moment, but it is so, so worth it.
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Women can definitely do this and I like to do it when I can and when I have the time on my own as I can stretch it out over a couple of ours. I know when I am getting horny and I need to masturbate so maybe I will start by just rubbing my clit whilst fully clothed and just my hand in my knickers. After a while I will leave it alone then go back to my work for as long as I can resist then I may go use my dildo for some time but trying to stop before I cum. I will try different things such as my vibrator and see how long I can last. Sometimes I've been edging for an hour or two, very horny and wet then all it takes it 30 seconds of rubbing my clit and I get my orgasm which is usually a big one after edging.
I generally don't have the patience to edge. The first time was actually kind of accidental, I was using this rabbit where the clitoral arm that was just slightly off my clit. Orgasm kept slipping away again and again but when it came it came big. The pay off for your patience is definitely worth it.
Edging is a big part of my d/s play but I've always found people are more than capable of edging even if it may take a little while. Everyone's different,
I’ve been teasing and edging for the past three to four days and haven’t ejaculated in two weeks. It’s Friday and I’m fit to burst so going to go for it tonight. I don’t enjoy the slight down feeling that follows but hey ho. There’s always next time.
Thanks again peeps for the input.
OK, so until I read this thread earlier in the week it hadn’t occurred to me that this was something to try myself. Cue last night, me restrained and blindfolded on the bed, husband armed with mains powered wand, pinwheel and feather tickler....well now, what an experience that was! He edged me about five or six times I think, though I was losing my wits completely by the end, literally whimpering and begging. I couldn’t move really at all after he finally let me orgasm, my limbs were totally limp when he untied me, and my mind had turned to mush. Happy, relieved mush, but mush none the less.
My thanks to you all, what a resource you guys are! I never realise what I’m missing until I come here.
Isn’t it amazing when you discover something new? The anticipation just adds that extra dimension. There’s no going back now!
Gosig wrote:
OK, so until I read this thread earlier in the week it hadn’t occurred to me that this was something to try myself. Cue last night, me restrained and blindfolded on the bed, husband armed with mains powered wand, pinwheel and feather tickler....well now, what an experience that was! He edged me about five or six times I think, though I was losing my wits completely by the end, literally whimpering and begging. I couldn’t move really at all after he finally let me orgasm, my limbs were totally limp when he untied me, and my mind had turned to mush. Happy, relieved mush, but mush none the less.
My thanks to you all, what a resource you guys are! I never realise what I’m missing until I come here.
Sounds terrific Gosig. Sounds like he knows how far to take you - whimpering and begging is good!