My wife (and especially me) love edging, any suggestions on ways to make it even better/kinkier/more fun?
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Every time you make a noise you’re not allowed to cum… see how long that can be drawn out, trust me it’s a long game 
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We play a dice game that has a bit of an edging element to it. It’s played with 5 dice, and is roughly based on poker hands. The basic premise is to start clothed, then the winner of each round gets to take an item of clothing off. Once naked, the winner then gets 30 seconds of toy time instead (though I tend to pick fellatio 
). You can also double up to 60 seconds if you roll 5 of a kind.
Instructions and example
First you roll the dice and see what you get. Then save the ones you want, and re-roll any others to se if you can improve your hand (3 rolls total).
Equipment: 5 regular dice, a timer, some sex toys
Hands: |
- | -
Five of a kind |
Four of a kind |
Full House |
Straight |
Three of a kind |
Two pairs |
One pair |
Mr Chimp - Roll 1:
5d6i
I’ll keep the fours 4, 4
Roll 2:
3d6i
Ah crap. I’ll save none, and re-roll all 3
Roll 3:
3d6i
Which gives me 4, 4, 2, 2, 1 - Two Pairs
Mrs Chimp - Roll 1:
5d6i
She’s going to keep the 4,4,3, and 3 as this already beats my hand no matter what (but she can still win 60 seconds if she gets 5 of a kind)
Roll 2:
d6
Nope. Nothing good.
Roll 3:
d6
Which leaves Mrs Chimp with 4,4,3,3,6 - Two Pair, but a higher set than mine.
Mrs Chimp wins and gets to remove an item of clothing! (spoiler alert, there are no losers )
Roll again for Round 2!
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We have Alexa in our bedroom and there’s a countdown skill called T-Minus. We set each other countdown times. You’re not allowed to stop the stimulation but you can’t come till the countdown reaches zero either. If you don’t come at the right time you have to start again
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Looking forward to hearing more suggestions! I love being edged and my wife does too (giving) so this is right up my street….
“Grabs popcorn and waits in eager anticipation”
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So I love edging on me but have only really just asked my husband to start doing it so I’m just enjoying watching and feeling him experiment with things at the moment. It makes him so happy to do it as the orgasm for me at the end is amazing.
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This always sounds like alot of fun. What kind of time increments do you use?
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Using punishments and rewards can work well. You could do this the obvious way round (the person edging gets punished if they cum within a certain time frame and a reward if they don’t) or you could have the other person receive the punishment if the person edging manages not to cum. The person who isn’t edging can do whatever they like to encourage the person to cum except touching them.
Rewards/punishments could include things like:
Orgasm ban for the loser (for the rest of the play, for days after, until they’ve made the winner orgasm so many times)
Loser cleaning up the mess (if the person edging wins, they get to orgasm then the loser can clean up)
Winner choosing whatever type of sex/play happens for an agreed period
Loser becomes winner’s slave for the day
Ruined orgasms (for subsequent orgasms)
Any number of non sexual things
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This is a great one i use this when im in the mood of being mean to her but more if she makes a noise i stop let her relax then go again
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We start off with 10 minutes or so (the quickie) then increase it in 5 minute increments as long as we can stand it.
10 minutes with the wand on her clitoris constantly but not being allowed to come drives her crazy.
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There are some good edging games on line. They are mostly made for solo use, however that’s not to say that your partner controlling the game wouldn’t work (if you and your partner were into that). Would be a lot of fun having someone else control the games 
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So it’s basically as sexy Yahtzee.
Interesting. 
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I’ve seen a few online ones that mix text instructions with visuals / audio like EdgePlayMe, edgemeplease, and the charmingly named fap instructor and faproulette. Some are insanely detailed (faproulette) and the good ones are customisable to add different elements to play. Some are more aimed at solo play but can be used as a couple if one is reading out the instructions or in charge of the settings!
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The other night I done this while masturbating and really enjoyed it, so my missus suggested I should do it everyday, get might self to the point and stop, we were wondering how many days someone has gone for before finally cumming?
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Since she controls my orgasms and I love the build up every bit as much as the orgasm itself i have edged myself or been edged by her 3 or 4 times a week for as long as 6 weeks
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My experience of this has increased massively now I understand the difference between how my phone and iPad handle the images and videos. Much less frustration. If its on my phone I dont pick the video option, on the iPad I only have the the video option.
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Never edged before… any advice on what to do and how to?
Try the cockhero porn videos out
Wooah. Its like Fap Instructor without the customisation but with much less frustration with images and videos. Thanks for the tip.
The aim is to stumulate to the point before climax and then pause to recover before going again. Apps and videos like the ones listed above help by creating a rhythm and pattern for you to match. The interactive ones will allow you variations on speed or grip, timing, or even extras thrown in depending on preference. You’re training yourself to last longer and recognise the feelings as you get closer to climax to allow for more control. If you’re into denial thats an option to as you can change the probability of being “allowed” to orgasm.