Tonight the misses is on a night shift and I am extremely horny and frustrated as not had any happy endings for over a week now so I thought tonight would be a great time to try edging!
How do men normally do it? I am quite good at listening and knowing my body and when to stop before no return. Do people watch porn while doing it as this tends to make a session a short one for me? Any tips or tricks would be good thanks!
I’ll let you know how I get on later!
I edge all the time. For me I just try and stay hard for as long as possible whilst playing with both my balls and shaft. The longer you edge the more insane the orgasm will be.
I normally find some compilation porn or something that is long and just relax.
That’s a good idea, thanks! Will try this!
Maybe a cock ring to keep hard too! I’ll avoid the vibrations as that will more than likely take you over!
100%, I would avoid vibrations as they can bring on the orgasm quicker.
Yeah if you have a cock ring use it but as long as you are keeping stimulated you should be fine.
I normally edge for 2 or 3 hours and honestly the orgasm is epic!
Not a man, but have edged men before. If its your first time trying then I would suggest removing all other stimulus initially - one of the best things about edging is exploring and getting to know your body. Focus on what you’re feeling as you get to that stage in between pleasure and orgasm and how your body responds when you stop. Once you’ve done it a few times, you could then introduce porn/toys if you wish.
I’ve found it works best when stopping as close to possible as when you’re about to orgasm so try and really push yourself to your max - this may take some practice (and self control) when doing it solo, and so please don’t be disappointed if it doesn’t work out first few tries - it’s all about trial and error! I usually go to point of just before orgasm, wait about 30 seconds (ish - depends on person) before starting again, then repeat several times until on the brink of explosion and allow the orgasm 
Some people don’t require stopping at all and just need to slow, others need a few seconds, others need a good 30 seconds before starting again so this will be down to what feels right for you.
Most importantly, enjoy it and have fun!
So tonight was fun, like I said in the first post, has been a while, and so within minutes I was ready! But self control, and some very near miss fires, I managed about 20/30 mins of it!
It felt great, the tension, the build up, not to mention the explosion of an orgasm! I mean I haven’t had an orgasm like that in a very very long time!
I managed to record the ending and sent it to misses at work! I hope she liked it! I’m just glad the explosions did not get me in the face, they came out with some power behind each one!
Thanks for your tips everyone! Much appreciated!
Yay, so glad it was a success @SexyCouple91! Would definitely recommend trying to encorporate it into partnered sex too if it’s something you want. It takes a lot of good communication but results can be wonderful!
Good to hear a happy ending 
Absolutely agree! My OH hates edging, it really ruins her orgasm. She gets to the edge, I stop, and it takes her ages and ages to get back. Really ruins it for her so I do avoid doing this for her.
Very good advice, that’s what I’m doing. I like just lying on my back in bed, actually with the ceiling lights turned up quite bright. Like the white light of nirvana I suppose. 
Hello, been a while since we have been on site, the old fellow wasn’t working to well if you know what I mean , but all well now, just a bit of advice if you can, bit slow on the new lingo for things these days but this seems to be what we called teasing back in the day, did a quick internet search and found a few videos on the subject, noticed a video count down prompt on the screen in the back ground this was a great help with the timing, has any one else seen this and know were to down load the count instruction video
@SexyCouple91: Edging can be good fun with the right circumstances.
If you are open to it, try playing with a plug in or riding a dildo, as it can really take the “challenge” to the next level.
Also you may want to checkout some “cockhero” videos, which offer some guided fun (you will see what I mean).
Depending on your relationship, possibly your OH might care to leave you with a selection of “home-work” to complete before they return (possibly with a reward for good grades / surviving to that point?)
Enjoy! 
Are your orgasms best:
a) you just edge and concentrate in one long session. Maybe get to the edge 3 to 7 times in one go then cum… Or
b) for example edge 20 minutes at 8am / edge 30 minutes at 1pm / edge 25 minutes at 4pm / edge 30 minutes and finally cum at 8pm so it’s been on and off throughout the day?
Thanks all @KentCouple1990
For me it’s A. I have a really long session of just constantly building up to the point I have an amazing orgasm. I just find they are a lot bigger if I do it that way.
Yes I’ll probably go for option A. I think I did it most times anyways when I have a good long time. Even when I use my vibrating masturbators or suction masturbators I don’t cum straight away. I enjoy it for a while get close if I’m too close I pull it off and wait a bit of time and play with my nipples or balls etc then use it again and do that a few times before I cum which are normally pretty explosive.
Think I edges get close 3 to 5 times before fully going for it. Next time I might try an even higher number for a longer time cheers.