My wife enjoys restricting and ruining my orgasms. She spends a lot of time edging me and we’ve recently taken to using a tight cock ring to help stop me making a mess (I have to warn her if I feel that I may cum, but I sometimes leave it too late).
I find that the cock ring has to be very tight, but if definitely helps and makes it even more intense. Does anyone else find this? Or have any other tips?
I enjoy having cock rings, but simply because they make the orgasm more intense for me.
They do slightly delay my orgasm (the tighter the better) and when i burst the orgasm dam, it’s a more intense orgasm for me.
As my wife says, it keeps me harder for longer and stops me cumming for her and it feels more intense for me. It’s a win / win.
Edging is probably a better solution for full body orgasms. The edging technique can be used by the man to avoid ejaculating before the woman has climaxed. It involves getting aroused through stimulation, backing off on the stimulation and going to a lower arousal level, and then repeating the arousal/backing off cycle. This is repeated over and over again until finally the final arousal with ejaculation is done. Since it takes a woman much longer to climax than the man, it is very beneficial for the man to practice some form of edging. Edging can allow the man to delay ejaculation for 12 minutes or longer. Since the average time for a woman to orgasm is 13 minutes, edging is very useful. Kegels exercises can be very helpful with holding back the orgasm and holding the erection during edging. A big benefit of edging is that, when the climax and ejaculation eventually occur, the climax can be full body and many times stronger than the localized sensation in the groin that comes from not using edging. There are YouTube videos on edging.
That’s a very full description!
My wife doesn’t like to take me to orgasm, it’s mostly about denial and control for us. She usually likes to leave me full and then feel me against her as she plays, or just entertain herself with the tease. On the occasions when it goes too far she ruins my orgasm and usually asks me to clean up my mess.
I’m intrigued as to the average times, I’m not sure that they’re very helpful to the individual!
There is a thing called “The Orgasm Gap”. Since the 13 minutes is an average, your wife may take a shorter (or longer) amount of time to tease you towards orgasm. For more information on this, you can go to my non-profit, information only website that you can find by clicking on my member icon.
Ahhh there’s the advert. How bizarre.
Holding off from ejaculating can enhance the pleasure for both parties. As Truthseeker said it can lead to whole body orgasms which are very intense. Also with practice it’s possible to have mini-orgasms without actually squirting.
I enjoy trying edging when masturbating sometimes but find I don’t have to willpower to do it for too long lol. Haven’t really tried it with the OH, definitely something for the to do list.
I have been edging all week so that once we have some time together I am going to loose it like crazy. I do have a vibrating cock ring that I don’t wear but use to stimulate right under the head and in the perineum to just add to it. Today I was edging and just a ton of pre-cum like never before. It was awesome.
I also like edging while masturbating and sometimes wear a cock ring and a ball ring too. I mainly play like this if I’m chatting or sexting and so find the will power easy as I need to pause to type etc, I find it builds to a very intense orgasm when it finally comes, sometimes I can go for a good couple of hours on and off keeping close to the edge