Recently im finding it harder to ejaculate inside my OH recently we have tried all sorts of positions her in top ,me on top, sideways etc , i find it easier to ejaculate either getting oral ,handjob or do it myself…
My partner gets more of turned on me cumming outside of her so she says but i say to her i think its easier to clean up (haha)
But i would like the odd occasion to ejaculate inside her , especially in moments we are both orgasm together .
Any ideas or does any couples have this issue , and what are couples preference when OH ejaculate do they rather it outside ,inside or swallow…
I think that this occasionally happens for all couples, once my OH has orgasmed, sometimes she wants me to continue until I cum inside her other times it is too sensitive and she wants me to masturbate onto her tummy.
Other times when I am inside her, I just don’t get the necessary sensations to take me over the edge, as pleasurable as it is, we could be going at it for hours and it is never going to happen, I guess as humans we have those days.
The thing to remember is that it isn’t anyone’s fault and ejaculation inside your partner isn’t everything as your partner has already expressed. Enjoy the ride.
I guess the only other thing if you’re finding it hard to when in her is to when you think you’re nearly there just give it a few strokes or get her to help you a bit with a handjob or whatever and try and quickly get it back in!?
Personally I prefer it to be inside me but I don’t mind sometimes he enjoys finishing on my boobs face or belly I don’t mind either way though. But of course everyone is different
Why not try something to highten your sensitivity during penetrative sex, Lovehoney do lots of different warming and tingling lubes.
Also try making sure your foreskin is pull back fully before insertion and even during intercourse make sure you do it as this makes sex even better. You could also try a tight cock ring which will make you more sensitive!
Try different positions that enhance sensitivity - some of the positions of the week describe techniques for this.
As already stated use LH products for enhanced sensitivity. Maybe get yourself extra turned on prior to penetration so you cum quicker.
I love cumming inside my wife but its not always a given, we have found lately that she gets super horny and super aroused so I get to come on her boobs/bum/face or she swallows me instead.
As DLJL states “Other times when I am inside her, I just don’t get the necessary sensations to take me over the edge, as pleasurable as it is, we could be going at it for hours and it is never going to happen, I guess as humans we have those days.”
This happens to all of us one time or another, dont worry about , relax and have fun whatever you decide to do.
On the occasions that I have had trouble finishing my OH is more than happy to give me a helping hand, so to speak, or I will finish the deed myself. Been a man I think we are wired to more visual scenes when it comes to sex which may explain why men sometimes want to cum in other places other than inside. My Oh prefers for me to finish inside, which I am fine with.
My favourite is definitely coming inside Sexterminatrix, as it is a much more intimate act; but then she also enjoys getting me to use my fleshlight launch and watching me ejaculate. It all depends on our mood, or rather her mood as I’ll go along with pretty much anything.
When I first met my sexual partner, he couldn’t orgasm through penetration because he was so used to the feelings of masturbation. As much as he wanted to he couldn’t. It gradually started to change and to be fair it was only about a month or two afterwards that he could, but there was a lot of sex in between.
He didn’t tell me about it for a while and I was starting to feel a bit self conscious, so it is good that you’ve had that conversation with your partner.
I love it when he does it inside me but also really like it when he pulls out and wanks on top of my pussy. Something about seeing it shooting out, and being smooth, seeing it all over the area.
Like to finish inside or outside - mixing it up is part of the fun of sex for us. Agree with @luscious_laura that there is something about seeing it shooting out, and my OH loves the smoothness on her boobs. On the odd occasion I’ve not been able to finish inside when she’s wanted me to, I kind of think it’s because she had got too wet (if that’s possible!) or we had used some lube to get us started and I’ve felt like there’s a bit of a lack of ‘friction’ to bring me to climax. So she’s then finished me off on her tummy/boobs. Sometimes she’ll finish me in her mouth, but she never swallows.
Personally i prefer to cum on the outside of her but she prefers it inside. When i am inside her it takes longer than outside. Usually what i find is my head wanders and i have lots of ideas of what i want to do to her when i come but when i am inside her my concentration is on her and how she is liking and wanting it. Sometimes she has to talk dirty and tell me about her fantasies and talk them through to make me cum inside her she can also tell me how she wants it over her but shes holding me inside her making me thrust.
Have an open conversation with your other half and find ways to help each other, you might be surprised at the things she actually wants but is to scared to ask for!
Personally I prefer when my partner cums in me as does he but occasionally he will finish on my breasts or my face.
It all depends on the foreplay for us definitely but if you are struggling to reach your climax inside you could maybe try an orgasmic gel or a tight cock ring?
Either way as long as you and your OH are enjoying it that’s all that matters!
I pretty much always cum inside my wife either when we’re going PIV or anal. Very rarely do I cum on her boobs/bum even though I love doing it. She tells me she doesn’t want to waste it.
Until I met Mrs W, I always felt the need to cum inside vagina - there seemed to be a primeval force inside me head.
However as DLJL said [quote=“DLJL, post:2, topic:297795”]
Other times when I am inside her, I just don’t get the necessary sensations to take me over the edge, as pleasurable as it is, we could be going at it for hours and it is never going to happen, I guess as humans we have those days.
[/quote] did happen.
Since meeting Mrs W and she has shown her love for sucking me off, I have since become quite happy for her to suck me off rather than cum inside her vagina… so now I am able to control that primeval force (if that is what it was) and finish how and where Mrs W wants, so that she gets exactly what she wants out of it…
Always out for me, nearly always on her mouth and face. I’d much prefer if my OH would stick her tongue out so I could cum in her mouth but she’s not keen so this is the compromise.
