Hey there
I just want to say a big thanks to everyone who has written- it has really helped calm my nerves/embarrasment, and also with coming up with what to say next time.
I dont personally thing this lady behind the counter actually had much at fault. It felt like she was asking a procedural question, rather then trying to be nosey. Backed up with what various people have said, that the rules have receintly changed, I dont actually hold a grudge against her- per say, she was just doing her job, and I firmly believe that, however it was just the situation and circomstances which I found so embarrasing- I was literally just struck dumb. I was unprepared (luckily, through this thread, people are hopefully not so now), and it was just too damn hot. It was hotter in that post office then it was outside, and I'd been queueing for a considerable amount of time. Also- whilst I do have a playful side, this town does have a generous proportion of old and retired residents- who also tend to come out at lunchtime, and actually saying anything blunt or rude would just have felt inappropriate. I would possibly have a quiet joke, if there wasn't anyone around, but just with that sort of audience- there was a large queue behind us now, it just wasn't right.
to Emu- It took a while to come to terms with buying online here, but I have now, and I do fully accept what I buy- on a personal level. However, telling complete strangers about your personal sex life- especially when they're not inviting it too (it's an honest question they apparently HAVE to ask now)- that is where a SITUATION does get embarrasing. Also, consider this- you may be fully comfortable around sex and BDSM, perhapse even in a more open or public enviromnent. But we all have to start somewhere, and a newbie buying their first small vibe might be highly embarrased about doing so. Doesn't mean they shouldnt, when sex is a basic animalistic need.