Even when I am not sexually aroused my nipples are always erect as summer is coming it makes it difficult for me to weare skimpy tops anyone else have the same problems
It's news to me that summer is coming as I'm huddled up in a big jumper with the heating on hgh!
However, the right bra might solve the issue, as Alicia4Ever pointed out, but if your tops are too skimpy for a bra then personally I would just think, 'who cares?'. If you do care, I'm sure you can buy nipple patches designed to hide them - a bit like the tit tape used to attach tops to skin when going braless.
Like these:
thanks for the link MsR much appreciated will order some and let you know how i get on
I'm always on main beam, too.
I frequently catch men staring and, depending on the man/stare (I know, but I can't explain why some stares are more... grubby, they just are), I can find it quite embarrassing.
My friend's husband has NEVER looked above my chest - she's always said he's the same with all women, main beam or not. She used to get really upset about it and for the last decade they've not had sex because it puts her off him. Bit of an overreaction but I've not been the only female to have mentioned his little penchant over the years and they've had many fights over it.
His daughter wouldn't have friends around as he stared at them and had frequently slapped/pinched bottoms. He laughs it off and has even called his wife and her friends (and me after I tried the old two-finger trick to get his attention) frigid.
He's in his sixties and I can appreciate times have changed from his Benny Hill glory days but the guy needs to drag himself into this century. My ex actually punched after he'd caught him pinching my bum (decades ago and one of the many reasons he's my ex).
I actually do wear the re-useable silicone nipple covers when I know I'm seeing her. Something I shouldn't have to do but the guy just makes me feel uncomfortable. The covers can be found in most high street lingerie departments.
Stupid question but do guys get embarrassed if they get a hard-on and catch people noticing? Do they find people stare or look away quickly?
Your friends husband sounds like a bit of a creep to be fair. As a bloke, its hard not to notice a woman's nipples poking out through her top, but there is a big difference between noticing them and outright gawking.
As for the hard-on issue, I guess it really depends on the underwear worn. If I am in loose boxers then it can show through my paints, but in general, its more discrete, not sticking outwards like a tent pole, more up (or down) along my body line. Now in swimming togs, thats different, much more tent pole like and I do find myself quite sub-conscious.
Its sad that you feel you have to try and hide part of your body because people can't control their eyes.
Forgive me for asking a silly question It isn't because your cold is it?
Thanks for all comments. I get embarresed when men just look no further than my chest I feel like a bit of meat being eyed up and down in response to your question mickeyminne no i have the same problems all year round
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Your friends husband sounds like a bit of a creep to be fair. As a bloke, its hard not to notice a woman's nipples poking out through her top, but there is a big difference between noticing them and outright gawking.
As for the hard-on issue, I guess it really depends on the underwear worn. If I am in loose boxers then it can show through my paints, but in general, its more discrete, not sticking outwards like a tent pole, more up (or down) along my body line. Now in swimming togs, thats different, much more tent pole like and I do find myself quite sub-conscious.
Its sad that you feel you have to try and hide part of your body because people can't control their eyes.
Spot on. He is a real creep.
Thanks for the answer. My OH is pretty shy and gets really flustered if he gets a hard-on in public.
On the hand, friend's husband always wears his shorts and joggers without underwear. If my friend has any of around (rare as it always causes fights between them due to his semi-flashing and staring), he'll sit opposite us and spread his legs so his balls are on show (another reason we don't go round much). Just like it's hard not to notice nipples on show, it's hard not noticing what he deliberately puts on show.
I don't hide my organ stops, just get creeped out by a few blokes that can't drag their eyes away while nudging their mates to have a look. Makes me feel like a freak show. My friend's husband's stares take it to a completely different level though. I always want to shower after seeing him!
Lots of women I know try to cover up out of embarrassment. T-shirt bras help a lot but I have to use the silicone covers under a t-shirt bra as mine always show. One of my friends wears dark tops and jumpers as she's very self-conscious about her dark nipples. Another wears fairly low cut tops despite having a bit of a hairy chest. She used to wax but has taken the admirable stance that if others don't like it it's their problem. Wish I was that brave.