First time back on the froums after a while and I see this thread.
Me and my OH do practice erotic asphyxiation,him on me.We have been together for 4 years,married 1 year and been practing BDsm for roughly 3 years,started after our son was born.
Before om OH even tried this we talked about it,looked online anout it and the procs and cons,the horror stories and everything about it. In the edn we gave it amild go,him holding my nose and yes it did highten everything.
the next time he pressed lightly on my neck,I enjoyed that even more.He knows how far he can go and I've never ever blanked out.
We enjoy it for a number of reasons: The dominance/submission thing turns us both on,the fact I'm trusting him fully,the lack of oxgyen really really turns my orgausms into something differrent.
We don't do it every time,and when I have a cold we never do it,too dangerous.
If you enjoy erotic asphyxiation you enjoy it,if you don't you don't.But as with any sex act it is always best to find out all the informtaion you can about it first,talk about it as adults with no preassure then decide. Not just jump in both feet first and risk major badness.
Well done for being so responsible and safe in your pleasure :) it's interesting to hear from someone who's taken the step from "throat play" to "breath play"!
First time back on the froums after a while and I see this thread.
Me and my OH do practice erotic asphyxiation,him on me.We have been together for 4 years,married 1 year and been practing BDsm for roughly 3 years,started after our son was born.
Before om OH even tried this we talked about it,looked online anout it and the procs and cons,the horror stories and everything about it. In the edn we gave it amild go,him holding my nose and yes it did highten everything.
the next time he pressed lightly on my neck,I enjoyed that even more.He knows how far he can go and I've never ever blanked out.
We enjoy it for a number of reasons: The dominance/submission thing turns us both on,the fact I'm trusting him fully,the lack of oxgyen really really turns my orgausms into something differrent.
We don't do it every time,and when I have a cold we never do it,too dangerous.
If you enjoy erotic asphyxiation you enjoy it,if you don't you don't.But as with any sex act it is always best to find out all the informtaion you can about it first,talk about it as adults with no preassure then decide. Not just jump in both feet first and risk major badness.
Hi we tend to do the same as you and its not too rough.... we alway do it when my hands are free, he is always gentle and he can tell by my breathing if its getting too much. I've only started holding his neck but it was after a lot of discussion and dissection to see what it was like and how we felt.
We'll never use anything but his hand and we do it mainly during rough sex
its kinky but I can see why some people wouldn't go for it